In psychology, temperament type refers to a typical combination of a common or similar psychological characteristic manifested in a person. It is inherent and generally innate and cannot be changed. Since the baby was born, they have their own unique temperament type. Understanding temperament types can better help parents raise their children properly.
Types of temperaments:
- Easy type. Most babies fall into this category. These babies are easy to adapt to the new environment. Accept new things and people who are not familiar with them. They generally have pleasant emotions and love to play. When people are active with them, they can get good feedback. Therefore, this type of baby is vulnerable to the greatest care and love of adults.
- Difficult type. The number of such babies is small. Their outstanding feature is that they often cry out loud, irritated and irritated, and are not easy to appease. At the same time, accepting new things (such as food, toys, strangers, the environment, etc.) is very slow. It is difficult for adults to get positive feedback when they are working with them. These children come to their parents. It is said that it is a big difficulty, and it is easy to alienate the parent-child relationship during the parenting process. Therefore, in the process of raising, it is recognized that there needs to be great patience and tolerance.
- Delayed type. These babies have more than difficult babies. Their reaction to the outside world is very low, and the emotions are always negative and not very pleasant. But unlike the difficult babies, they often cry out loud, but often retreat quietly and feel depressed. They evade new things and new excitement. But in the absence of stress, they will slowly become interested in new stimuli and gradually become active. With the increase of age, such children will gradually differentiate with the care and education of adults.
Which of the above three types of baby temperament do not know which type of child your child belongs to?
There is now a very popular concept that has gained the recognition of most people, that is, the poor son raises a daughter. In fact, such a concept is also biased. As a parent, whether it is a son or a daughter, it should be the right parent. So, how to raise a child is really good?
Let's look at methods for raising children:
- Material conditions should be as good as possible.
Whether it is to train boys or girls, in fact, we should find ways to provide children with better material conditions, that is, there is no luxury in the family, but some items needed for life should not be absent. If you can't be satisfied, let your child explain it well and let the child understand your difficulties and understand the situation at home.
- Let the children swim in the book sea.
Children should be exposed to a variety of books from an early age. From a very young age, they can tell him stories directly. Wait a little longer, then ask him to write and write, and then teach the children more knowledge and skills. Let the children involve more knowledge about human geography and the philosophy of science.
-Take the children to visit the world.
When the child is a few years old, consider taking the children out to visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, let the children grow up their own knowledge, and appreciate the local customs. When the child has experienced these, his vision will become wider, and naturally, he will not be so knowledgeable when dealing with things.
-Let your child reach out to all types of people.
Don't close your child. You should take your child to see people of different personalities so that your child's social skills will improve. When children get along with other children, they can learn a lot of knowledge and make a lot of close friends. This is an essential experience and resource for their life.
Children who are treated with respect and support are more emotionally stable than those who are constantly protected (Tim Seldin, Montessori Encyclopedia).
-Give your child an analysis of each phenomenon.
For all kinds of bad phenomena in society, we should learn to analyze with the children, such as how difficult the child's learning has encountered, why the school will have students beating others. After the child has discussed with us, we can help guide the child to look at the problem more correctly and help the child build the habit and ability to think independently.