The growth process of the child will always exhibit some inappropriate behavior. If parents are unchecked, and once these bad behavior if they will become children to grow up in the fetters, is the so-called “thousands of miles of dikes destroyed the colony.” Therefore, experts remind parents: do not neglect these little bad habits.
1. The interrupted conversation
Why not be ignored: your child may be eager to tell you anything or ask you some questions, but if you condone his interrupted your conversation, but does not help to teach children for the sake of others, more will not let him learn at your busy time how to yourself to pass the time. The result will be he believes he has the right to attract the attention of others, and can not endure any frustrating.
Suppression method: next time you want to call or talk to friends on the chat, tell the child to him to keep quiet, not bother you. To his activity or let him play one he usually didn't play too toys. If you're in the conversation when he is pestering you, you can refer to the refers to the chair to let him sit quietly at that, patiently waiting for you to talk to an end. After telling his interference others would not get what he wanted.
2. Attack sex
Why not be ignored: children and Guy accompanied by a skirmish, you may not necessarily be to discipline, but you shouldn't neglect that small aggressive behavior, such as tear down the little brother or pinch children. Parents adviser Dr. Michel believes that if you don't, then, children to the age of 8 or so, this bad behavior will Old Habits died hard too. Laissez-faire transfer of information is a harm to others can be accepted.
Stop method: positive response to aggressive behavior. Take the child aside and tell him, “that would hurt the sister. If he did this to you, what would you do?” You want to tell him any harm to others moves is not to the. Next time you go out to play before, reminding him not to be rude overbearing, to help him practice when angry what to say. You can also give him a little punishment if he repeated the words, do not let him out to play.
3. The pretend can't hear you
Why not be ignored: tidy up the toys, get a drink of water, when you remind the child to do something he loves to do, once, twice, three times, even four times, he was still like did not hear like, then you can not be ignored. Due to such a down transfer of information is indifferent to the adults of the instructions does not matter. Again and again, remind the child to be in the training he can wait for the prompt, without the need to pay attention to your first command, if you pamper your child to continue this behavior, your child is likely to become defiant, and strong control desire.
Stop method: not in the house the other side of the with a child to speak, walk to the front of her, telling him what to do. Talk, let him look at you and answer“okay, mom.” Stroking her shoulder, calling her name, turn off the TV will help to attract her attention. If he doesn't listen, tell him the consequences of what is. When five-year-old Jack began“selective hearing” when his parents decided to take action. They tell the child that if he insisted parents repeatedly asked him to do things, like say eating or bathing, then that day he can only see a cartoon, (usually he can see two)or that one week he will lose one of the outings opportunities. If they had to remind him twice while a cartoon does not make looked, or two days can not go out to play. Moms the efforts do not budge, otherwise, he will continue this bad habit.
4. Ignore the rules
Why not ignore it: If children can take their own snacks and put their own DVDs, it is, of course, convenient, but some foods, such as candy, can not be eaten as you like, nor can you watch DVDs at home all day. Experts believe that it is definitely not a good idea to let children do things without following the rules. If you look at a two-year-old child who is very good at taking cookies from the counter, then wait and see if he is eight years old and doesn't say hello. He goes to a friend's house.
Stopping the method: Make a few family disciplines and talk to your child about this topic, for example, tell the child: “You have to ask if you can eat sugar because this is the rule.” If the child opens outside the specified time TV, tell him to turn off the TV. And the rules are stated loudly and clearly, which will help keep the child in mind. When the four-year-old cockroach took some of the paintbrushes without permission and painted one of her arms all yellow, his mother told her that she couldn't help the billboards for the garage promotion in the afternoon. Although she cried, the only way she would not let her repeat itself.
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