There are no accidents in life. Some acquaintances grow into something more than just sympathy and communication. Lovers are ready to live together for the rest of their lives, to overcome all hardships and deprivations together, to rejoice at each day spent together and just love, self-fun and sincere.
Nevertheless, in every couple there are days when you notice that the relationship with the second half of the spoiled, the harmony is broken. Often there are scandals on the same place because of all the nonsense. If nothing changes, then over time, people who love each other, who have always understood each other, suddenly turn into just strangers living together.
It is in this difficult time for the family to find the right solution that will help restore peace and understanding, will preserve the family union.
Let's move on to the rules of strong family life. Control over emotions, anger. This is one of the most important rules in this situation: learn to control your emotions. After all, the reason for numerous quarrels, often in the beautiful half, lies in the uncontrollable impulse of passion.
Often in the midst of a scandal, we do not pay attention to what we have said in the heat of the scandal, and yet such words hurt, leaving an unpleasant precipitate, lie on the heart, lead to unjustified actions, end up with unexpected consequences.
At such a moment it is necessary to pull yourself together and try to calm down, to be distracted. You can translate the topic of conversation, so as not to aggravate the situation. And when the storm of emotion settles down, look for a compromise that will satisfy both spouses.
The resentment. Offense can not be avoided in any relationship. They accumulate and lead to emotional burnout, stress, disease. Learn to consciously forgive. Understand, your life companion, if he offended you, he did it unintentionally.
Show more care, attention - it will allow you to overcome any resentment, even very strong. If you will do so constantly, then be sure your partner will answer you with reciprocity. He also wants to be more attentive and caring.
Criticism of the partner. This is a big problem. We unconsciously criticize someone who is near us, and in different ways - laughing, ironizing, pointing out the shortcomings. And even if we do, we compare it with someone else. And this is very offensive. It is worth learning to find positive features in his chosen one (lady), to make more compliments and praise.
Put yourself in the place of your partner, look at the problem through his eyes and do not be offended by criticism, respond to them with confidence and without unnecessary emotion. Your peace of mind in any situation is the key to success.
In separation. Perhaps some distance, life separately will help to look at the relationship with the other side, so to speak, the fresh head. When partners are constantly in close contact, they subconsciously seek out each other's shortcomings, begin picking on the little things.
Temporary detachment will allow you to forget about the resentment, to remember all the good things. Perhaps you just need to arrange a separate rest. You will have time to communicate with friends or a new hobby. In this way, you can not use in the event that the relationship between the couple themselves outlived, because it will lead to a final break, will make the spouses strangers.
Following such simple rules, couples will have the opportunity to settle all family problems, give novelty to the relationship.