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However, when a person has a certain experience, they will slowly return to their childhood and can easily judge others.
The past emotions of the other party will become clear at a glance.
At this stage, we gradually grow into the most excellent and accurate "take people by appearance".
There is a well-known and vivid case about "taking people by appearance."
Once, President Lincoln interviewed a new employee, and he did not accept the interviewer.
Ask him why, he said: "I don't like his looks!"
The questioner did not understand and asked: "Is it a mistake that a person does not look good, is it his fault?"
Lincoln replied: "A person's face before the age of forty is determined by the parents, but the face after the age of forty is decided by himself. One person is responsible for his appearance after the age of forty."
In the plausible age of the young, I read this story and gave birth to the same doubts.
As a president, it should be rationally superior to ordinary people. Why is he so capricious?
However, with the increase of age and experience, I gradually realized the connotation of "taking people by appearance".
This is not an unfounded personal likes and dislikes.
Emotional psychology has mentioned that emotions have explicit functions, and facial expressions are one of the manifestations of emotions. Emotions will flow through the face of the person.
By the same token, by observing the faces of others, we can also speculate on the emotions of others for a while.
This is precisely why, so many great celebrities have left so many famous sayings of "taking people by appearance".
Schiller once said: "The person with a cheerful heart, the face is also cheerful."
Coincidentally, Balzac said: "The mind reflects life and the face reflects the soul."
The most incapable of self-deception is the emotion of oneself. Emotions always go out of their hearts and climb to the face.
Those who are guilty and immersed in negative emotions all the year can not find a calm and beautiful face.
For a moment of intense emotions, we can suppress and overcome by self-control, making it look less embarrassing.
However, over time, the expression of emotions on the face will gradually appear in secret.
Therefore, many fortune-tellers who look at each other are actually not the "river and swindlers" who do nothing.
There are so many guesses for no reason, and they can just guess correctly.
They are just reading countless people and knowing all kinds of emotions.
Your emotions for a moment are written on your face, and he can understand it if he understands it.
That's all, it's not esoteric, it's not simple.
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Although God only throws a scorpion on the appearance of a person, it is decided from the moment of birth whether you are a beautiful person.
However, you can still decide whether you want to be a "good-looking" person in your next life.
Once, about Deng Wendi, there was a very hot article.
The main purpose of the article is that Wendi Deng is no longer good-looking.
The presentation of Deng Wendi's photos is like a microcosm of past emotions.
Behind the years, Deng Wendi is still beautiful among his peers, but he is no longer good-looking.
Those photos will make a big touch to your heart, because the contrast is too obvious.
This face and eyebrows show up with unremarkable grievances, coolness and unhappiness, full of emotions and emotions. No cosmetics can be covered.
The discerning eye can see at first glance that in these years, she should have been very unhappy, and her heart is filled with uncontrollable bad feelings.
When interacting with people, many people unconsciously choose those who look bright. The kind of clarity and beauty can instantly light up the emotions of others.
Goodhearted people, even in the face of all kinds of competition and pressure in life, will not become obscene and dark.
Stress should never be a reason for a person to become unsightly.
Even with strangers, we also tend to choose those who are "good-looking".
For example, when you buy breakfast, the cheerful shop owner will make you feel good and have a good appetite for a day.
For example, playing taxis, the eyebrows are filled with masters who love life, he will not be so easy to get angry, he will also tell the parents short, very nice to listen to.
In addition to the inner guilt, those who make you feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable are far from being the most foolproof way.
Some people can't afford it, or they can't afford it.
It is a love for yourself not to challenge those who have been surrounded by negative emotions for a long time.
A person who can't make himself look good is someone who is not responsible for himself and is incompetent.
He can't dispose of his feelings well and can't change his emotions. This is one of the incompetence.
He can't improve the situation that brings bad emotions to himself. It is difficult to give himself a good and positive attitude from the roots. This is the incompetent.
Even a person who is born with beauty can't be afraid of the day after tomorrow.
If you can't cultivate yourself and be a good emotional controller, the godsend's exquisite facial features will still become distorted.
Being a good-looking person is far better than a beautiful but awkward person.
A good-looking person can have a truly beautiful and open life.
When you can create an open space for yourself, the heart will welcome the spring blossoms.
When you look so good, you have already won yourself. What are you afraid of?