Probably all people have talked about the beauty of the appearance and the beauty of the soul. The beauty of the soul is the comfort of those who are not beautiful enough. The praise of the kind person, this gift can not be seen, but everyone loves it. Who has seen the soul? Have you seen her beauty and ugliness?
Some people with sharp-eyed, sensitive minds can faintly see her. A beautiful heart seems to be a kind of brilliance. On the face of a loving mother, in the face of youth in love, on the face of a pure girl, we can see her. She made a look that might not be beautiful.
The mind is really face-to-face and looks different from the appearance. The beauty of the appearance of the soul is not related to heredity, nor is it completely related to moral quality. It is only related to mental health. The healthier the mind, the more beautiful the appearance of the soul. The appearance of the soul reflects the vitality of the heart and the strength of vitality, the harmony of the heart, the tone of the mood, the age of the mind, the goodness and the meaning of the life of the person, and so on. If there is a person who is strict with ethics but who is not lived, timid, and boring, then moralists can praise his spiritual beauty, and under the psychologist's image dialogue technique, the true face of his heart must be ugly. His psychology can't be said to be healthy.
I have been in contact with such a person in the consultation, usually behave in a proper manner, morally rigorous, and he never refuses what others let him do. But he has mild depression. I asked him to see what his heart looks like. He used the image dialogue technique to look at it and sighed: "My heart is an old eunuch, his face is puffy, walking is weak, wearing The eunuch clothes are also old and broken. I have a general appearance. I usually use my soul to comfort myself. Who knows my heart is actually not good."
There are many people who look good and have beautiful minds. For example, a friend of mine, her appearance is at best a Chinese person's appearance, but looking at her heart's appearance, it is like a fairy. No wonder her very handsome husband is as fond of her. She is kind, and not the kind of incompetent kindness. She understands affairs, considers human feelings, does things thoughtfully, treats others sincerely, and lives happily in her own life. Traveling, reading, listening to music, and enjoying all kinds of happiness in life.
Knowing that the heart has looks, probably everyone wants to see the look of their own heart? To be difficult to see, there is no need for the special function of the eye-to-eye, only the image dialogue technology is needed:
First, find a quiet place, close your eyes, calm down, and reduce the confusion in your heart. Then relax your body, slow your breath, and imagine yourself walking down a staircase. The light around it is not very bright, there is a large mirror at the corner of the stairs. In the imagination, what you see in the mirror is not your own, but another face, another form, don't think what it should be, just wait for the image in this mirror to slowly clear up.
The image of the heart is not necessarily a person, but an animal or a plant. The words "human face and beast" in idioms are really not rumors. It’s just that the human face is not necessarily a bad person. There is a girl's heart is a sika deer, people are gentle and pleasant, there is a man's heart is a tiger, but a person is a generous hero. Only if the heart is a wolf, it is really a human face, a poisonous evil. The heart is a plant, most of the psychology is very healthy, the man is a tree, and the woman is a flower. It’s just that these people are quiet or too introverted.
For example, the appearance of a man's heart - he said that his heart is a ghost, a white, fierce expression, two hands open, is rushing to a girl. In life, this is a person who likes to be like a girl. It is gentle, humorous and fascinating. In fact, his mental health is unhealthy and there are mild psychological disorders. I don’t know if the girls know that the face of the man’s heart is like this. Can he have so many good feelings and love? From him, I think of the story of the painting in Liaozhai. After the beautiful woman uncovers the skin, It is a ghost. Everyone thinks that it is a story, not a real thing. Only superstitious people will believe, but in fact, the appearance is beautiful and the "inside" is terrible.
The appearance of the heart - because it is in the internal part, the aunt is called "inner appearance", you can see it with your imaginary eyes, and others can't see it.
Then why do we want to be beautiful? The reason is the more beautiful the heart, the healthier your heart, the more happy you are; the more beautiful your heart, the more energetic and loving you are, the more radiant you can be in the outside. It is also simple to make your heart look beautiful, as long as you are healthy and your mind will do.
The beauty of the appearance delights our eyes, and the beauty of the heart touches our hearts.