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A long time, I have always remembered it.
Years ago, I was walking on the road with an aunt. An electric car passed by, and the lights slammed from the aunt's arm. A few steps, I quickly helped her.
The electric car swayed a few times and then suddenly stopped in front. A pair of feet in fashionable high heels were on the floor.
The owner turned his head and shouted loudly: "No long eyes? How to walk, clean the way!" We are clearly in the innermost position of the road.
What's more, the electric car came from behind, and there were no other vehicles on the left and right. I am angry, ready to talk to her theory.
Auntie took me, shook his head, and whispered that he should not be familiar with such people. Then she raised her head and said with a smile: "Girl, sorry."
The girl actually had no twilight, and she screamed: "I count you. If I am not available, I will not talk to you today!" After that, the electric car went away.
I am filled with resentment and feel that Auntie is a bit "bun".
We are clear in the matter, but we must eat this dumb loss. Moreover, even if the girl is not in a good mood, she should not be mad at others!
Aunt looked at my confused expression and said, "You are still young. She is not a bad mood, and she is angry. You look at her unsightly face. It is not a good person at a glance. Why do we have to provoke such people and make ourselves unhappy."
I am more confused. Tossing the unhappiness of happiness, objectively speaking, the girl is actually very beautiful, and the facial features are very delicate.
However, if you think about it carefully, although she is beautiful, she talks about the angle of her mouth and her eyes are full of fierceness. It is caused by long-term temper, and it is not so good-looking.
It looks different from beautiful, irrespective of the exquisite appearance, it is a very comfortable inner experience.
Of course, this was what I learned later.
A person's face can't fool people, that is how much expensive cosmetics can't cover up.
A person's daily emotions are first and deeper in all kinds of disguise, and are most deeply presented on the face.
As the saying goes, look at Mengjiao's spring breeze to the horseshoe disease, one day to see Changan flowers, Guan Yuyu "three hundred and sixty days a year, the wind, frost and snow are strictly forced."
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For a person who doesn't look good, the child is usually very sensitive and is a natural judge. This is also the first ignorant but accurate stage of emotional judgment in our growth.
When I was studying, I took a group of people to teach. Those partners are the first time to meet the children.
Just after self-introduction, there is a clear difference in the popularity of everyone.
One of the male students, who had no special features, was greatly loved by the children and soon became a part of everyone.
Even children who don’t usually talk very much have become more active.
And some best-looking men and women of the same sex, although able to sing and dance, are still cold.
I was curious and asked a few children in private, why they especially liked the male classmate.
A few children squinted and thought for a while, actually answered me because he looked good.
I was amazed at the caution of the children.
The male student looks ordinary and has nothing to do with the handsome, but the temperament is wonderful, and the popularity among the students is also very good.
No matter what he encounters, he is always open-minded.
Therefore, it is the "gas field" that he has accumulated for a long time to attract children.
The children's judgment standards are all simple and beautiful faces around them.
These immature faces, without the accumulation of long-lasting bad emotions, are as pure and beautiful as white paper.
Therefore, they can always find out the same kind of people who are "good-looking" from themselves in the pile of adults.
If you look carefully, you will find that many people who are not good at heart and long-term sorrow, even if they put a smile on the child, the child will subconsciously hide, even if the child is plain and outgoing.
After we grow up slowly, we will have such a stage, between simple and complex, good and evil, good and bad, giving birth, and giving birth to many uncertainties.
We will lose the accurate judgment of our children in stages.
In our eyes, we will ignore the "good-looking" or not, and focus our attention on whether it is beautiful or not.