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№6 Too like to watch long TV soap Opera.
Hailey said that her most hated mom to see the lengthy soap Opera, mom a fancy addiction does not play with her anymore: once we go to the amusement Park to play to-night at seven o'clock I also refused to go, mom on the big temper. I know her but want to go back and watch the series fills. I'm really sad, did mom put in watching television than I also important?
Opinion: television fans' mom always thought of myself as a stay at home for long enough, but for the children, she is equal to man in the heart is not. Therefore, experts advice: one family per week should be set at least two days off TV day, a man of common reading, conversation or games; weekday turn on the TV, it is best to open only one TV, and mom should select a television program and child watch together, you can also take the kids to see the circus, magic, music class television, and to communicate with their children on the television program the view, so the watch TV activity the evolution of parent-child communication platform.
№7 Definitely refuses to eat a little bit of loss.
In the kindergarten activity class, the sweetness was accidentally pushed down from the slide by the rain, and the forehead was rubbed. This is also a false alarm, posted a band-aid can be, but the mother knows that she must take the child to the hospital for a full-body examination, sweetness is pulled by her mother, went to the Children's Hospital to open a lot of laboratory checklist, Yu Xin parents With the accompanying, the attitude of both sides are getting more and more subtle. When I went out, sweetness finally complained lowly: Mom, you are really shameful! Mom is a little confused: Who is shameful? Isn't it on our site?
Opinion: When we complain that the children are becoming more self-centered and less and less versatile, we must first review ourselves: As a mother, do we give our children a big body? Many mothers have to educate their children from time to time so that the children who are educated are likely to be children who lack teamwork spirit. Why didn't you smile at the slight friction between the children? Letting the child handle the contradictions between the partners themselves will have great benefits for their future interpersonal skills.
№8 Speech is not counted.
Nothing more than three, now 5 years old Shi Xiaoxin has not believed that his mother will take him to Japan Disneyland's promise, a mother is a person who does not count. Therefore, when the mother is angry with Xiaoxin’s actions and vows to punish him, Shi Xiaoxin’s face doesn’t matter. Mom will forget that she didn’t even take me to Disneyland. How do I remember this? I don’t want to watch cartoons during the week?
Opinion: The mother who always plays the promise card has its starting point. It is hoped to add some material stimulation to the child's progress and make it motivated. However, the mother looked for various reasons for her own cool promise but made the positive stimulus brought by the promised step by step. If the mother always seeks objective reasons for her own coolness, then the child will find various excuses for things that she can't do in the future, instead of looking for reasons from herself, never apologizing and reflecting on herself. What kind of consequences is this?
№9 I am also intimate with my friend.
After a birthday party at home, the 5-year-old Yang Yang refused to invite the same class to open the Christmas party, because the last time the mother cut the cake and gave me the smallest piece; I took more than 30 photos and only gave me I took two shots. Mom said that it was the courtesy of hospitality and that Yangyang was a little angry, Yangyang screamed with his ears screaming. "I don't want people to come home anymore. Any other child will come, the people will become the sun. Mom is special around people and I hate my mother!"
Opinion: Treating the closest mother as a patent, not allowing her mother to show intimacy to others (including father), is the unique psychology of young children, this overbearing mentality is actually a psychologically constructive safety for young children. One way, mothers don't have to worry too much about it. After the age of 2 to 5, from the age of 6, with the expansion of the children's circle of communication and the diversity of emotional support, he will gradually learn to share his mother's care with people around him. It won't be as intense as the hour.
№10 Too fat mother, or, not trimming mother.
The 4-year-old Babe asks some strange questions every day. For example, she will ask her father: Mom is so fat, why do you want to marry her? Mom and Dad face each other and don't know what the little girl's brain is thinking. For example, before going out, Babe will remind her mother: Why don't you have a lipstick? Why do you always wear jeans instead of skirts? Mom was so shy and flushed, and said to her father in the back: Is it only the beautiful guy who is the babe's parents? I am still not old, my daughter actually thinks I am ugly.
Opinion: Children's cognition is not mature enough to see the essence through phenomena. Therefore, it is their mastery to take people by appearance. Children generally hope that their mothers have curly long hair and skirts, and they are praised by their friends. This has nothing to do with their mother's feelings. So you may wish to smile at the child's picky, you can also ask for more advice: What color dress do you want your mother to wear? If you change yourself occasionally according to your child's wishes, the atmosphere between parents and children will be more harmonious, and the child may, in turn, change his habits according to the parents' wishes. This is not a bad thing.