Today we know that men and women, of identical intelligence and ability, differentiate themselves above all in the field of social sensitivity and especially in the erotic field. A difference that does not depend on the type of differentiated education for men and women but that has a genetic basis, the gender differentiation already takes place in the embryo. The brain of Louann Brizendine's women is a good book on the subject. And the differences in behavior and sensitivity are enormous. Women are better able to express their emotions and, by observing the faces and behaviors of others, they understand their feelings, attitudes and emotions better. They are thus endowed with social virtues in a higher way. Men, even if they think much more about sex, do not tell their feelings, their feelings, the details of their daily lives. Women, yes, and more interested in the intimate life of their knowledge and characters of the show they know about love, divorce, relations with their children. Men nothing. Women think a lot about love and at thirteen already, fourteen are ecstatic for their favorite actor. The man, on the contrary, when he looks at a woman or a diva, thinks essentially of sex. Finally, women love love and when they fall in love, they become more beautiful, they bloom. The men are as if they have been hit in the head.
The males are attracted by the sighted beauty, which they see in a global way, without being able to analyze it. To excite them, two crossed legs are enough, a breast that exceeds, a little donkey that moves away writhing. However, they are very sensitive to clothes, to all that dresses the woman: necklaces, bracelets, bright and colorful jewels. They are usually fascinated by clothes that emphasize the shape of the body or show a part of it: legs or chest or back, covering and uncovering the body. Women also admire male beauty but do not usually adore a naked body, they can be much more affected by a flawless uniform. In any case, they also capture, sometimes only with a look, even strength, audacity, courage, intelligence, passion. They appreciate both the overall personality of the male whose life they capture, the fascination of a lived life and his social personality: success and power. They instinctively reject the weak, timid and uncertain man who crawls. When they leave a man and he follows them crying and begging them to come back, they despise him. Instead, a man who has left a woman, if she cries and implores him, is moved. Finally, in the male eroticism, the view is very important, while for the woman, the smell, the skin, the sound, the word, the music, the cenesthetic sensations are more important, so the caresses, the embrace , the way he kisses them.
How many misunderstandings arise from these differences! Because men are attracted to women who value their body, their eroticism, who, by their clothes and their gestures, openly show their will to seduce but then consider them as pure sexual objects, they are jealous, they devalue. Except then to run after them in a nightclub or a nightclub, but women also make the same mistake when they want a man who obeys all their orders, at home or outdoors. Because when they have managed to make him his servant, they no longer feel any erotic interest for him. And then, they would like a "real man", who can hold back proudly, but who then knows how to woo them and who takes them to a romantic place to seduce them.
The great seducer, the one who "enchants" women and releases their eroticism, speaks to them like a woman. I say "speak" because the key is precisely composed of words and the way they are said.
The woman fears the violence of the male. The great seducer may have a strong, manly appearance, but speaks reassuringly, persuasively and confidently. He has the security of his father and the knowledge of his mother. He says what only a woman could feel. He speaks of the female body with the delicacy of the woman. It tells and evokes feelings that only the woman knows and can say. The great seducer has patience, it gives him time to prepare, to fantasize, to be enchanted, to get excited, to let go. He never shows his desire, his urgency. The great seducer always knows how to withdraw, he always knows how to take a step back, he always knows how to postpone his needs. At every moment, it makes the woman promise that every woman expects: I do not ask you to change yourself, I do not use violence, I do not want anything for me.