Those uncles are not too cold
The ad, my sister's boyfriend is l5 years older than her and has long-term experience living abroad, handsome and very attractive. To show her sensible things, she gave the defaults for many of her boyfriend's requests. Until one day, he said, do you mind if you don't mind, we are looking for a young lady to stimulate together? She collapsed and felt that she was greatly insulted and came to talk to me.
I told the above story, not to say that seeking excitement is not good, or that there is a problem with finding a lady, but that Ad, the sister's handling method is problematic. Uncle is more than us in life experience. Seeing the world is wider than us, people who know, and things that we experience are not comparable to us. Then get along with the uncle, it is necessary to be direct and simple.
The uncle must have also interacted with many women, women's little tricks, and I don't know all of them. Then don't play tricks on him, what do you like, hate what, fear, in the process of communication, tell him calmly, pretend to be mature and sensible, let the uncle come to explore your bottom line, you will encounter Ad, sister Dilemma.
On the contrary, if you say your thoughts, the uncle will not laugh at your childishness at all. It will only feel that you are young, and such an idea is just what you should, but instead outsources you. If you are generous and meet something you can't accept, the uncle will have a kind of feeling. Isn't it a good idea to say that we are 0pen's ion ship? How can we talk without saying anything?
The most effective way to deal with Uncle is to spoil. Spoiled is not a sprinkle, saying that his bottom line is not arrogant. After all, men who have seen the world are not willing to marry women is also the truth.
Taking advantage of your age, seeking for mercy is a magic weapon to deal with Uncle.
The most crucial point is that for Uncle, you must repeatedly emphasize that you like children. When a man is old, he will have a stronger desire for reproduction. Even if I plan to be Duke’s uncle, I must be full of love for the children. In the case of children, praise the children cute, and interact with the children, even if the children are noisy, you have the urge to kill, but also give me back.
Uncle is in power
Why are more and more girls becoming uncles? Because they are mature and have a good experience, they will hurt people... you! We! enough! Now! The key is to have a career and a family property. After the three rounds of Houhai’s uncles read the vicissitudes of life, there is Zhao Wenzhao’s appearance and the body of Donnie Yen. Who wants?
I am sorry, I am material first. This is the real idea of many young girls. Instead of having a life that does not see hope in the name of love with a peer, it is better to find a successful uncle in one step, and they have experience than young people. There is conservation. It doesn't matter, it is understandable to choose the path of life that you yearn for.
Everyone's mind is different in the standard of the uncle, but it is certainly not the kind of obese baldness that reveals a large section of autumn pants. Although they still have to maintain a good figure in middle age, it is the most basic and generous, and they will know how to be jazzy. Okay, I know a lot of such uncles, they have once Or multiple marriages, with varying degrees of bad taste, like to warm with young girls, with a variety of fancy flirting means. When the girls go deep into the play and think about the future, they will still be polite and say: You are still young, follow me, not worth it.
There is no deliberate disparaging of the meaning of the uncles, and in a few years, I will also step into the ranks of the uncle. Why do girls hope to be an uncle? It is because young men are too self and lacking the material foundation. The unsatisfactory sense of superiority is boring, and a little setback is enough to make them fall back. Compared with the uncle who is responsible for the mature gold, the other things have no advantage except that the things are not soft. On the other hand, more and more ordinary girls hope to change their destiny through love, see the story of Cinderella turned into a princess in novels and dramas, and hate the ordinary life of porridge and a meal, just like I love my family. The same line in the sentence: If you can't find a high-ranking child, look for Gao Gan himself.
Is this good or not? I dare not assert. The condition of life is self-aware, there is no need for guidance and arbitrage. There may be an indescribable hidden behind the sleek superiority. It is also fun to have a room for the ordinary diet of men and women. The middle-aged uncles may Let many women take fewer detours on the road of life to avoid bumps, just for the majority of young men:
Before the uncle was on the road, after the time is too chasing, the pressure is big.
How to talk about money does not hurt feelings
There are three major tricks to scare men away: love is incompetent, forced to marry and borrow money.
As the old saying goes, there is no bread in love. It is best not to talk about love without bread.
Women have the right to spend money on men and need to use this right. If you meet a meal and don't pay for it, take a taxi with your AA, you can't give a gift for your birthday, and you have to stay away from you.