A first date is stressful, you don't really know what to expect: "Does he look like his profile picture?", "Will he really like me?", "Will he still be as friendly as when we met on the street?" and so many other questions are jostling in our heads. To ease the pressure a little bit, what could be better than to boost your confidence by being sure of your look.
If you feel attractive and comfortable in your clothes, you will naturally feel less stressed and you will find it easier to be yourself on this first date. It's not about preparing you as if you were going to a ceremony, you don't play the big game for a first date, you stay simple, elegant, sexy, but all in subtlety.
Follow my tips to find out how to dress for a first date and you will see that you will look delightfully pretty and well in your skin for this first official meeting. And also know that the following tips can be applied even if you don't have a romantic date planned and you just want to be seductive to go out with friends for example. And if you are already in a relationship, take the opportunity to make a little surprise to your darling by organizing a little surprise outing at the restaurant and showcasing yourself as I recommend it below.
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Before you go robbing stores or rousing all your boyfriends/girlfriends to choose your outfit, you must first know where your first date will be. We obviously don't dress the same way to go to dinner at the Ritz restaurant as we do to eat a burger in a bar... And how would you look in your 12 heels if he decided to take you on a picnic on the beach? That's why it's important to know where you're going before you turn over your cabinet.
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If you want to put all the chances on your side, don't try to play a role and transform yourself into someone you're not, just to please them. Make an effort, yes, but with intelligence. If you never wear heels, there's no need to come in with 15 cm stilts... You won't be comfortable and he'll see it immediately. Same for you, gentlemen, no need to draw the suit and tie kit if you feel bad in it. There is nothing like playing a role to destroy self-confidence... Make an effort to be prepared, yes, put your assets, your sex appeal, yes, but be yourself. It will make you even sexier.
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This advice is particularly addressed to you, ladies: even if you are feminine and sexy, don't overdo it, you could give a false image of yourself and misunderstand your intentions. We forget the micro-skirts, the outrageous necklines, the "stolen car" make-up, and especially the total sexy look: operate in small strokes, moderately, and let it glimpse instead of reveal... The effect will be all the more intense...
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If you want to have a good evening, you'll have to think of something else than your skirt coming up, your heels hurting like a dog or your bra preventing you from breathing... Anything you don't master perfectly, forget it this time. You can do the experiments another day. For now, prefer clothes that are both sexy and comfortable (yes; yes, there is!). It would still be a shame not to talk about the evening for fear of blowing the button on your XXXS jeans...
Here again, this is particularly true for you, ladies: what is hyper trendy in your eyes is not necessarily so in the eyes of men. Example: the leopard, panther and other prints, which have been a hit on the podium for several seasons now, and which are far from being unanimously accepted by these gentlemen. So, for this time, leave your rooms too trendy in the closet and stay on the classic, sober, neutral colors. You will have plenty of time to show him your fashionnista cloakroom later....
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In the word below, there is... below. Translation: lingerie is not a priori made to be seen, at least not before undressing... So, ladies, let's say it once and for all: the thong that protrudes from the pants is not sexy, it's vulgar... We also avoid the black bra under a white shirt or the bright orange bra that we can guess thanks to the strap... Second advice: even if for you, it is out of the question to end the evening in bed, make sure you match your underwear just in case (never say fountain...). Avoid grandmother's panties and Hello Kitty patterns. Think glam, think sexy. But not too much is needed. He shouldn't think you're a stripper in your spare time....
Wear clothes in which you feel comfortable, comfortable and that look like you. There's no need to try to look like someone else.
Unless it is your will, avoid clothes that are too sexy, such as dresses that are too short, mini skirts, tops that are too low-cut...
Pay attention to details: have a good manicure (no flaking nail polish or bitten nails), a sober and neat make-up, clean hair, perfect shoes.
Adapt your outfit according to the venue: chic restaurant, neighbourhood brasserie, trendy bar, concert, cinema, opera, park, carnival... the important thing is to feel comfortable in a look adapted to the occasion.
Be true, natural, authentic and you will be on the right path to seduction. For a second appointment, suggest a common activity, a sport that will make you feel good, a visit to the Botanical Garden. A one-on-one dinner is more appropriate for a third appointment, if one is held.