Many mothers like to talk to their baby, such as "eat rice" and "watch the car", thinking that this expression is lively and interesting, the baby is easy to understand. In fact, there are many drawbacks in this way, which not only affects the cultivation and development of the baby's abstract thinking but also artificially prolongs the time for the baby to transition from overlapping words to simple sentences.
1. Adults speak with their children and children.
Many mothers like to talk to their babies, such as "eat rice" and "watch the car", thinking that this expression is lively and interesting, and the baby is easy to understand. In fact, there are many drawbacks in this way, which not only affects the cultivation and development of the baby's abstract thinking but also artificially prolongs the time for the baby to transition from overlapping words to simple sentences.
2. The adults arranged to replace the deprivation of the baby's right to open.
When the baby can listen, but still can't say it, I like to use gestures to express my needs. For example, pointing to the bottle indicates that I want to drink milk, pointing to the toy and expressing that I want this toy to play. Adults usually understand the baby's intentions and rush to serve him. After a long time, the baby has dependence, and he is too lazy to express his needs. Anyway, you can always guess his mind.
3. Forcibly correct the baby's language error.
There is a kind of parent who, on the contrary, forces the baby to say that once the baby is wrong, it is corrected again and again. For example, when the baby first called his grandfather "Yeah", he corrected the baby one by one, and he had to say yes. This practice can only make the baby bored with speaking, even unhappy, and can use body language to communicate.
4. The language learning environment is chaotic and complicated.
Many families have elderly people or nannies to help take care of their babies. There are many dialects in the family. Some parents look forward to becoming a child. They teach their babies to learn English from an early age so that the baby can live in the environment of Mandarin + English + various dialects. This makes the baby feel at a loss and can't experience it. The fun of language learning can cause aphasia in severe cases.
5. Adults are silent.
The baby's language development is largely influenced by a caregiver. If the caregiver is introverted and does not like to talk, and can not provide a richer language environment for the baby, the baby is less stimulated by the language, less likely to imitate the adult, and the language development is naturally slow.
Knowing the reasons for the lateness of the language, we also know how to deal with it, such as:
1. Speak to your child in adult language;
2. Create an environment for your baby to talk;
3. Do not laugh at, correct the baby's child language;
4. Provide a specific locale as much as possible;
In addition to these, we can also apply some other means and techniques to help children learn to speak, such as:
1. It is simple to talk to your child, to be short, to repeat, to exaggerate your speech, to accentuate your keywords.
2. When the child looks at you with your eyes, it is to communicate with you. If you want to help him to tell what he wants to say, or when the child uses his body to express his own needs, he should help him to speak out: You want milk.
3. The child is learning to absorb in the process of playing, to lower, with the child with a high level of sight, play together, teach him verbs in the process of playing, such as push, push the train, I push, you push, pushed very well
4. Tell the verbs while doing the action, such as: open, open the door...
5. Every day when taking a bath, you should also learn interactively, body parts, face, eyes..., the water temperature is hot and cold, the verb washes, the soap, the bubble...
6. Listening and learning children's songs is a good way to train your baby's sense of language.
7. Encourage your child's expression and even desire to perform, such as telling stories to parents, imitating their favorite cartoon characters, etc.