It should be clarified here that projection is not entirely morbid. A projected image represents the potential of a blockade. When we need to present an image publicly, the first step is to perceive it in others. Then we can possibly learn through this process that all of this is related to ourselves and thus consciously withdraw this image.
For example, if a woman who falls into the seventh house of Mars does not exert her inner strength and decisive qualities, she will look for a man with these qualities. She may find a man with obvious characteristics of Mars, a person who likes to dominate and is extremely self-centered. A man who will scream at her. Through this man she integrates the energy of Mars into her life. But when she can't bear to him, she may realize that she also has the right to ask, and then she will start to fight back, and finally found the nature of Mars in her nature.
If we can incorporate the characteristics of the seventh house into our own identity to some extent, we can fully publicize these qualities. Therefore, people who fall into the seventh house of Mars may become the ones who incite others to act, and those who fall into the seventh house of Saturn may become teachers or mentor of other people. Many people who are involved in assisting or caring for work have a strong seventh house. These people need to have an almost uninterrupted and intimate communication with others. In this way, “empty” the overcrowded seventh house is a comparison. A wise approach can also buffer the impact of too much planetary energy on intimacy.
The local court also belongs to the seventh house. Society often regulates the excessive expansion of individualism. We must, to a certain extent, ensure the fairness and justice of the behavior of members of society. When the boundaries of the law are crossed, there must be external forces involved to restore balance. How we perform in such courts can be seen in the configuration of the seventh house.
The seventh house is essentially related to Libra and Venus, and we will learn how to work further with others in the life field related to the seventh house. This has led to a trade-off between the first house and the first house: To what extent should it cooperate with others (seventh house), and to what extent does it persist (first house)? On the one hand, we are afraid that too much retreat or excessive integration with others will sacrifice self-identity.
On the other hand, it may also require others to over-sacrifice to cooperate with us, thus depriving them of their individuality. Rabbi Hillel, Judaism, clearly pointed out the question: "If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am only for myself, who am I?" The seventh house is homework with others. Meet and then balance at both ends of the balance.
The meaning of the eighth house
If my devil leaves, I am afraid that my angel will leave me. - Rilke
The eighth house is often labeled with many kinds of labels, because it is opposite to the second house of “self-worth”, so it is often called “the house of the value of others”, which is easily interpreted literally. The constellations and planets of the eighth house show how we deal with marriage, inheritance, or finances with business partners. For example, Jupiter’s people in the eighth house may get money for marriage, gain a lot of unexpected wealth for inheritance, easily evade taxes, or form favorable business alliances with others.
If Saturn falls into the eighth house and the phase is not good, it is possible to marry a person who is about to go bankrupt, inherit the debts of a close relative, be kept in focus by the tax authorities, or find a bad partner. We often see people with many planets in the eighth house who work on money related to others, such as bankers, stock traders, investment advisers, and accountants.
Of course, the eighth house speaks not only the money of others, but also the “things shared” and the attitudes we have when we form alliances or integration with others. As we strive to expand and extend the things highlighted in the seventh house, the eighth chapter is about the nature of the relationship: what happens when two people with different temperaments, resources, values, needs, and physiological clocks try to combine ? The ensuing problems are often endless:
I have some money, you have a little money, how can we spend this money? How much should we save each month?
I like to do love three times a week. You seem to want it every night. Who should I listen to?
You think that you don't need a stick to love children, but I insist that children should not be physically punished. Who is right?
I really don't know how you can be friends with the couple, they really make me unhappy. I want to visit my friend this evening. In the end, who friends will they visit?
to be continued...