Presidents George Washington and Thomas Jefferson. Literators William Shakespeare and Robert Burns. Politicians Napoleon Bonaparte and Abraham Lincoln. Inventors Henry Ford and Thomas Edison.
It is not only the world's success and grandiose results that bring these people together. They all knew how to sublimate their sexual energy. Friendly husbands and gentle fathers, caring gentlemen and pleasant gentlemen. They have learned to want fame, money, and fame as much as the young groom is waiting for the wedding night. Inspired by their women and inspired by the victories in the field of love, these legendary individuals did not stop at nothing until they reached their intended goal.
Try and you
Try to direct the call of the flesh into the mainstream of business, creativity, art. This will lead to prosperity and give you a taste of success.
Love for money, love for children
The intimate sphere is attractive to all people without exception. The instincts to continue the genus are strong in each of us, whether we are in a priest's robe, a white missionary's shirt or armed with a teacher's pointer. The media annually publish ratings of the largest billionaires in Russia. They have time not only to multiply their capitals but also to acquire heirs:
- Roman Abramovich - six children;
- Sergei and Nikolai Sarkisovs are each with five children;
- Andrei Skoch - he was not even thirty when his wife gave birth to four twins. Now he is divorced, is the father of nine children.
About single fathers
Speaking of single fathers, the ratings of the most enviable and wealthy bachelors are no less popular. Marrying a prince with a solid wallet is a dream that does not lose its relevance either in the days of Charles Perrault or today.
These people may not respond to enthusiastic reactions. They may not care that the girls are ready to throw themselves at them. But they radiate sexual energy, as all successful people do.
Achieving goals
Is it possible to turn a passionate desire into something else? Say, lust to turn into perseverance? And desire - in the focus on results? Yes, undoubtedly. Business coaches and personal coaches all over the world agree that the desire for sex is consonant with the desire for money. You just need to hear it and follow your inner voice.
Ignorance and timidity can make us slow down before giving in to passion and becoming the master of the situation. And in both areas: financial and sexual. Both these parts of a full human life are full of taboos, prohibitions and ambiguities. For example:
- Limited posture for sexual intercourse/fear of expanding the range of professional relationships and useful acquaintances;
- Avoidance of responsibility, unwillingness to be on top - both in the literal and anatomical sense, and in the portable, career;
- Unreadiness for experimentation;
- Active rejection of all those who try to break the privacy, to get out of the comfort zone;
- listening to outside opinions and evaluative judgments, rather than listening to one's own feelings and desires.
A crazy quirk
And sex and money often deserve a similar epithet. People say: dirty money, bad sex. They call passion a crazy fad, and easily earned money - crazy. But both topics are always "catching". TV companies know that for high ratings you need to show what will not leave the public indifferent, namely:
1. Who sleeps with whom.
2. Who earns how much.
3. What money and sex lead to: crime, death, jealousy and other expression of violent emotions.
So, one thing is inseparable from the other. But to spend the rest of your life in a bed or at the TV set is stupid, at least. Stephen Covey recommends sublimation. That is, to use sexual or vital energy to achieve high goals, including business goals.
How everything works
It is believed that the art of sublimation people begin to comprehend at the age of between 30 and 40 years old. By this time, the person has already completed his education, created a family or outlined a close circle of regular contacts, more or less determined plans for further life. Psychologists also believe that by this age, people are beginning to appreciate the quality rather than the number of sexual relationships. So, they are able to concentrate on one person, one business, one idea.
An invaluable resource of personal attraction only seems inexhaustible. You need to spend it moderately, productively, without exhausting yourself and not losing strength for future achievements. All great politicians, all lucky investors spent some time with their loved ones. But statements about wives and children are full of light gratitude and deep devotion. Did these feelings help them in their offices and in the field? Absolutely.