The frontier that separates love from friendship between a man and a woman is innumerable.
Here are some suggestions to avoid misinterpreting the two.
Distinguishing love and friendship: practical tips
First of all you have to make clear what you feel, then talk quietly and understand if there can be something more. Ask yourself some questions and confirm or not some hypotheses like these:
It's love if:
- Start to project yourself into the future with this person
- Try physical attraction
- Are you jealous of conquests or of the women he likes?
- Pay attention to your look when you have to see it
- You ask him what he does when you're not together.
- You find trivial excuses to call, see, and touch him.
- You lie when your "friend" asks you if she's single.
It's friendship if:
- You don't touch at all the idea of being able to go to bed together
- You give him advice about women he likes.
- You make friends with the girls you're dating.
- Don't look forward to a response to a message
- You ask him for advice if you like a guy
- You make him come to your house even if you're in a mess and all messed up
Presenting friends and hoping you can fall in love with a girl who does not make him suffer.
If you think that both of you can have a good friendship, nothing better, but if you start to feel that something different is going on in the air like love, you'll have to do something!
Think about the consequences:
It may happen that the feelings do not match, that one of the two feels love and the other does not, so, inevitably one of the two will suffer and the friendship could end.
If you both feel a feeling of love, start a story; in the same way consider that if the story goes wrong, your friendship will also end. Advice? Be certain; when there is love... don't doubt it!
Avoid ambiguity:
If you are sure that it is friendship, do not create situations that can put it in doubt; no evening alone, no kind of sexy game, not even as a joke, because sometimes it can be misunderstood!
Speak clearly:
If you realize that your friendship is changing, the best method is to communicate. Express clearly what you feel, at the risk of being rejected and friends, but be honest; only then will you be able to see if there can be something more or not. If the situation is the other way around, that is, that your friend is falling in love with you, make him immediately understand that for you he is like a brother and nothing more!
Find the right balance:
If love is not shared, or you say that there is no love, find the right distance, without exceeding in daily phone calls, confidences, going out with new people.
Often we feel attracted to some people, just because we feel they are accomplices, or because of a situation of prolonged loneliness; with these suggestions, however, everything will be fine!
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The G-spot does not exist!
We have always talked about the famous G-spot in us women. We have often wondered, does it really exist or not?
A group of American scientists has debunked the myth most beloved by women.
Scientists at Yale-New Haven Hospital in Connecticut have decided to make us understand, explain and shed light on the myth that for years has been wandering in the minds of women, who insistently wonder if the G-spot exists or not.
After several researches and many studies on the subject, scholars have declared: "Objective investigative measures have not been able to produce strong and consistent evidence of the existence of an anatomical region correlated to the famous G-spot". After this, women, our myth has unfortunately been dispelled.
The first to speak and make us believe (and hope!) in point G was the German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg, who spoke of it as a kind of "pleasure switch".
Unfortunately for us women, after questions, answers, research and various studies, we have come to the conclusion that there is no scientific evidence on the existence of the G-spot, associated more than anything with anecdotes told by lucky women.
Women, therefore the only hope you have left is to be lucky like the few women who have experienced this pleasure!