For many men it is obvious to identify with their profession, because they have always been accustomed to the fact that you take care of everything else: the result, of course, is a lack of equality of couple. Today it is still common to find women who sacrifice their careers for the home and their children, while he has no timetables and, when work calls, he has no time for anyone. In the lives of many couples, therefore, there is often a rather marked disparity between her work and that of him.
Why is there a disparity between the couple?
Many women complain that partners do not take into account their profession, and therefore feel that they are considered to be second-class or diminished in value. Others accuse men of not even giving them the chance to achieve their career. Although things are slowly changing today, the male approach still follows ancient cultural legacies.
For man, the psychological identification with work is often obvious and absolute: no one has to choose between career and family. It is therefore not difficult that the professional commitments of the partner are seen negatively, because they take time away from the home and the family and because they can be a hindrance to the achievement of his professional goals.
What is the solution for a real equality of couples?
If you realize that the relationship with work affects the life of the couple and becomes a source of tension,
before it can evolve into a more serious crisis. If she is convinced that her work is just as important as her partner's employment, she must make this clear so that there is no future misunderstanding about it.
She must never stop talking about her professional goals and commitments; only in this way can we achieve true equality between couples and break the spiral of "he only takes care of the career, and she takes care of everything else". It is essential, then, to move on to the facts: planning family life in order to be able to manage both family commitments. For example, with the calendar in hand, you can determine when it is up to him to accompany the children to school or to the paediatrician. In this way, neither will sabotage the other's working life.
A common problem for many women is that they don't feel like they are up to their partner. Instead, one should learn to think that love does not require such a disparity, and that, if she is better than him, it is not a fault to be taken for granted. With a bit of cunning and diplomacy, it is possible to overturn positions and find a healthy couple balance.
Betrayal: confess or deny? Let's find out together
Unfortunately, in the course of our marital life, there may be several obstacles that lead us to become federations and to have an adventure outside of the life of the couple. Many people, after having betrayed their partner, feel a strong sense of remorse and sometimes they can't even look him in the eyes, slowly leading to the ruin of the relationship. As a result, they keep repeating themselves whether to keep quiet or confess betrayal.
In the end, according to a survey carried out by the portal Incontri-Extraconiugali.com, to get the better of it are the lies
The portal that carried out the survey reports as follows: "From our survey it emerges that a good part of the infidels never confess the escapade, deciding at the same time to continue the relationship even after the betrayal. This means that infidelity does not always mean a crisis in the couple or a breakdown in a consolidated relationship.
There are also 39% of participants who admit that they were unintentionally discovered shortly after adultery, although it is very rare for infidels to be caught in the act. Most lovers claim to have been discovered by friends or relatives they have in common with their partner. In this case, there are many who admit to having closed the official relationship, even if there is a percentage of lovers
The portal continues: "If you choose to continue the relationship with your usual partner, it is advisable to face betrayal without problems and with an open face. If you succeed in overcoming this phase, the escapade ends up becoming a strong point of the relationship, even becoming almost therapeutic".
But what are the reasons that lead lovers to keep betrayal secret? Well, some do it to avoid disappointing their partner, while others do it to . 67% of the federators who do not confess betrayal underline that they have the absolute certainty that even the partner is not an example of loyalty.
This is how the portal concludes: "There are relationships in which extramarital encounters are part of the story and feelings cannot be judged. No one can say a priori that a relationship that does not consider monogamy as an essential factor turns out to be a failure.