No matter how the world changes, nowadays, the image of ladies is still popular and has broad market prospects. Society’s views on ladies are also thousands of years. Unmarried women are struggling to become ladies.
Married women are even more eager to become ladies. It seems that the title of lady is deeply rooted in women’s hearts and establishes a good society and The family image is a virtue, a trend, a gesture, a benchmark, and the image of a lady is well received and widely acclaimed.
Today, when women are regarded as models of women, those women who are recognized as "lady" do not know what they feel. Ask yourself, is the lady so comfortable? Is the lady willing to let herself go on like this lady? Is it true that a lady is a lady and she has no regrets?
Although you can refuse to admit it, the standards and norms of ladies are made by Chinese men for women, just like the "Jing Jie Memorial Archway" in the past, and advocating "women should have women" and "women" The sage is the source of family happiness.
At the same time, our women are also deeply influenced by the encouragement and influence of “women are pleasing”, which is the result of men’s so-called values of “pursuing fashion, showing individuality and showing sexy”. Not only beauty and body, weight loss, but also internal and external repair, to be a lady, even if you can not do everyone, you have to be a small family Jasper, only to win a man smile, win a man, in the final analysis is to make men happy, ask men favorite.
It is fair to say that women have made incalculable contributions to the beautification and construction of this man-dominated world. Whether a woman can become a lady, she must have a desire and pursuit in her inner world. After all, a lady is also a woman, she must also eat fireworks, and she must have seven passions and desires.
Under the constraints of society, family, marriage, and responsibility, the face of men’s long-term psychological defense against social and family image has gradually disintegrated and collapsed. The emotions are like volcanic eruptions. The rushing magma rushes down, and it is unstoppable and indestructible. The behavior and performance of the maidens in the eyes of the world can only be regarded as a sorrowful sorrow in the face of the lady’s indulgence. The lady’s swaying, madness, and lasciviousness are not lost to the maiden, but the lady’s signature has become their best disguise and disguise, but their true face and heart’s desires are rarely known.
As the animal of the animal face is said in the article "Because of lasciviousness, so charming", external lust is the only appearance, but the inner sensuality is in the bones. The external lasciviousness is seduced, the inner sensuality pays attention to it. The temptation is that the external lust is focused on kinky, the main attack on the body, and the inner lust is focused on the way, the main attack on the soul. The external lascivious looks like the scenery, but it is the coquettish, the inner lascivious looks like the customs, but the scenery.
"It can be seen that the crazy derailment of a lady may be regarded as the inner lasciviousness of the seriousness of eight hundred."
Take a look at the women around our lives, take a look at the stories we report in the media, take a look at our friends and family, those women who are considered to be "serious" and "lady", and surprisingly, those who are mostly derailed They are all of them, and even their derailment makes the family and the people around them feel incredible and even more unreasonable. And some women who are regarded as women in the weekdays are surprisingly cherished family, marriage and emotional life after they are married or married. Various social phenomena tell us that the derailment of ladies is not a very unique phenomenon in the modern social environment, but rather There is a sharp upward trend, the deterioration of emotions, the dissolution of marriage, and the breakdown of the family are not unrelated.
In this regard, Mr. Noodle People believes that the derailment of a lady can not be regarded as a flood of beasts, nor can it be completely regarded as a sign of social morality, but at least one point is that the value system of the ladies’ styles that men are single-minded and wishful to create is in reality. Under the conditions of being vulnerable, there are fatal flaws and natural deficiencies.
Ladies, whether they are publicly derailed or secretly out of the wall, in the social conditions dominated by male values, after all, they must swallow their bitter fruit. This is not a sensation, but a cruel reality that cannot be avoided and cannot be avoided.