When we meet the right person, the one who makes our hearts beat faster, the one we think is our half and the person with whom we spend the rest of our lives, the hope is naturally to make our relationship eternal. Sometimes, you know, things don't go as they should and it's just when these unpleasant events occur that we have to implement some rules that will put things back in their place. Between the lines that follow we will list the ten mistakes that should not be made in a couple relationship, in order to avoid that our relationship is irreparably worn out.
A group of experts, after a series of in-depth studies, has come to the conclusion that no human being is born with the gift of knowing how to love in the correct way and all imitate the first example of a couple they learn to know, that of their parents. Apart from this, the experts underline the influence of the mass media, the readings we make and what we see on TV. But let's try to find out what we have to avoid so as not to ruin our relationship as a couple.
Let's start from the idealization of the partner and the couple, which occurs in the first months of the relationship. In a relationship, especially at the beginning, a sense of strong positivity prevails and we tend to see everything in a rosy perspective but then, when the first problems and difficulties arise, a strong sense of disappointment prevails.
The only way to overcome this phase is to remember that nothing and nobody is perfect but, with a little good will and through dialogue, it is possible to improve yourself and your partner.
Jealousy is one of the causes, if not the first, that lead to the end of a relationship. It is a very normal thing to be jealous of your partner and if it is normal there is no problem, since a little jealousy is even good for the relationship.
Unfortunately, many times, it happens that you literally get jealousy and you tend to become too obsessive, and possessive, towards your partner. Let's remember that when jealousy becomes too strong to manage, the couple is permanently and irreparably destroyed.
Another mistake to avoid is excessive control over the partner. Even if at the beginning of a relationship being capricious can be a pleasure, with the passing of time our partner will begin to get tired of doing everything we want, without ever feeling gratifications. We categorically eliminate selfishness in our relationship.
Lies are a practice often used by men, who can not do without using them, especially to prevent the loved one gets angry. Well, let's keep in mind that when the lie comes out, there is a risk of losing the trust you've earned forever.
The possessive attitude, always controlling the movements of the partner or even being a private detective, is one of the first reasons that make the relationship sink into the void. Let us remember that it is not pleasant to be followed and, as a result, lose your freedom 'also learning that our partner has no confidence in us.
You are never happy when you live through your insecurities. By measuring everything we do with our dissatisfaction, you cannot fully enjoy the couple relationship. Insecurity, in a relationship, must not exist at all. I hope that these tips can be useful to all those who have problems with their partner.
Women: the symptoms of "Evil of Love" are similar to those of a heart attack
It is well known that we women are, in most cases, much more sensitive than men and that our reactions are accompanied by much stronger emotions to both good and bad news, especially if the subject in question is about love and relationship.
Love sickness", a disease that really exists and that in medical terms is called "broken heart syndrome", is more dangerous than it seems and this could become a big problem when we receive bad news, such as betrayal, or when our relationship comes to an end, also for other reasons.
Researchers at the University of Arkansas in the United States have conducted a very thorough study and have shown that broken heart syndrome is in effect a real disease and we women are the ones who suffer most from it. In practice, the reason that causes the attack, is linked to a sudden slip of adrenaline and hormones, usually linked to a fact that is emotionally strong in the subject involved.
Unfortunately, the symptoms are very similar to a heart attack, but do not cause consequences such as obstruction of the arteries or muscle damage. But that's not all. The study showed that women are seven more likely to be affected by the disease and that older people are more at risk than younger women.
Broken heart syndrome is the only cardiac condition where there is a predominance of women and the exact causes of this disparity are not yet known. U.S. researchers hypothesize that men are better able to manage physical stress as a result of a particularly strong emotional event or, another hypothesis not certain, is related to hormones that could play a major role in this process. Unfortunately, suffering from love causes pain both physically and emotionally.