Second Division:
Indivisible qualities:
They can accept the shortcomings of their partners, but they cannot accept the shortcomings of their partners, persistent resentment, oppression, self-restraint and withdrawal.
If the first department determines whether people can establish a true relationship, the second department determines the extent of the relationship.
The second point is to leave our own narcissistic part, to do the most appropriate position, use the real "I" to satisfy the real "I", this is the introductory marriage.
In marriage, especially for women, it is easy to feel that they are difficult to separate in this position.
For example, when he faced a variety of problems, Mr. Fells felt that he must be tolerant: they would try to be wives, but they were full of dissatisfaction and resentment.
So why is it difficult to separate in this position?This is because if they don't do their best, they will feel that they are not good enough. If they feel bad, they will not be loved. This allows them to hide many imperfections and try to avoid conflicts and contradictions.
In interpersonal relationships, it seems that they are treated normally, but in fact, they have different feelings and thoughts in their hearts, but it is difficult to put the true self in interpersonal relationships.I can't finish the second part because the heart is very strong, but I am very confident that if their work really wants to get the heart, they can get wider recognition.However, it is precisely because of this kind of hidden efforts that this relationship cannot enter the deep stage of interweaving, while the other half cannot truly understand its own heart.
They often dress like a mother or a dad in a marriage. In order to prove that they are necessary, they will ask themselves to do all the possible things, so that the needs of the other party will be crushed sooner or later, and eventually, they have to escape.Therefore, it is impossible to complete the division of the second part of the person, that is, those who have no boundaries, can not enter the marriage period, always live very tired in the relationship, do their best, complain and want to break up.People trapped at this stage must undergo a process of self-discovery, more to confirm their feelings and ideas and to form a common, sustainable self-image to withstand the pressure of interpersonal relationships.
Third Division:
Leave some sense of reality and enter the sublimation period of marriage Indivisible features: If life becomes boring, I will not be able to bear it.
Marriage that can pass through the first two compartments can be maintained in a relatively stable state. However, after a long time, it is always boring and often has more mutual insults.
In a relationship, our complaints about another person are usually complaints about ourselves. For example, when a wife complains that her husband is useless, it actually means that she does not realize her heart.
If we have a long relationship, we are tired of it, and without our own strength to achieve the goal, then the partner will be dissatisfied. At first glance, there seems to be a lot of dissatisfaction, but don't consider these issues. Life shows too many trivial things because one or two people in a relationship can't find their own self-esteem in this world, so they want to get more from marriage. If they can't get it, they will breed more.
Not satisfied
However, marriage can bring us many benefits: everyone needs to find their own values outside of marriage through a healthy lifestyle, such as work, hobbies, such as a good lifestyle. Reduce the feeling of being more and more empty in marriage. For us, find the meaning of your life and the need to establish a lasting stable marriage. We must do everything possible to live alone, making our relationship more stable, safer and more satisfying. The process of research and search will be accompanied by our lives, which means that our marriage and life are independent of each other.
Those who cannot complete the third part should study the meaning of their existence through marriage. Even if the reality is a pen, even if two people are noisy, quarreling and noisy, they will eventually live according to their own wishes. Marriage or marriage is still important, but it is only part of life, not all. Marriage that may enter the sublimation stage is multifaceted, with emotions, interests, and dependence, as well as self and freedom. With these rich views, our feelings about marriage will naturally not deteriorate.
It is often said that a couple in love has 200 divorces and 50 impulsive deaths in their lifetime. Marriage is like an iron blow that can withstand high temperatures and separation.
Everyone can dream that when they meet someone, they seem to have peace. Life in adulthood will become more and more real and cruel.
The gifts provided by these destinies have been secretly priced, everyone wants to be better, and the corresponding gifts are selfless and responsible.
