Everyday (a pseudonym) is 6 years old this year, and kindergarten is a big class. Due to the lack of concentration, it is difficult to participate in group activities. Through observation and evaluation, it is found that although the overall activity is high every day, he is actually a low degree of alertness, so he must always be active to stay awake. When he stays for a while, he is less motivated to move, but he gets very annoyed. At the same time, his activities are too high and he can't concentrate on the activities, so his behavior is bothering the teachers and affecting the companions around him.
After a comprehensive understanding of the situation at home and at school, I believe that my ability to adjust myself is so poor that I cannot achieve the goals of learning and activities. I decided to give one-on-one coaching training every day and give sand table games treatment. The training goal that I developed together with my family is: I can participate in classroom activities constructively every day, and adapt to group activities.
I use the relevant equipment to receive a "high dose" of enhanced tactile sensation, vestibular sensation, and ontological input, and adapt to the environment, with hand-eye coordination training and family concentration training. Because I am often criticized by teachers every day at school, I am often punished by my family at home. I have a lot of negative emotions in my heart. In the process of sandbox game treatment, let this emotion be released every day, and the sand and sand in the sandbox classroom slowly The land also allows for daily construction and creation. This intensive, multi-faceted form has a good effect in two months. However, it seems that the situation of improvement in the state of low alert every day is not very obvious.
Later, I got in touch with the kindergarten teacher every day and sent some knowledge about the difficulty of self-regulation to her. She is also very happy to learn. At the same time, I told Tiantian that every day, I need to make an occasional move. Therefore, she often delivers errands to do every day, or actively asks to go around the classroom every day to meet his demand for activities.
Such a strategy is counterintuitive to many teachers and parents. They think that sitting quietly is an indicator of concentration. I have always believed that the stimulation of the brain is like food to the body. When a person is hungry, he will be rummaging through the cabinet to find food. When he is full, he will not look for food.
Through high-dose sensory stimulation input, sand table games, teachers and this "three-headed" intervention, it is possible to participate in classroom activities and group games every day, and to complete the teacher's family "job". I believe that if the age of the day is a little bigger, he may be able to develop more sense of control and develop more strategies while meeting his needs and environmental requirements. I would also like to thank the teachers of Tiantian Kindergarten for their active cooperation. I hope that more kindergarten teachers can have a deeper understanding of the relevant knowledge of learning and integration.
Is Asperger caused by the parenting style?
Some believe that Asperger's disease is caused by improper parenting, abuse or negligence. Parents may think that it is a problem of improper parenting. In the end, parents know that it is actually a problem of the child itself, not a problem of parents. However, relatives and friends may still think that it is the fault of the parents.
There is a child with Asperger's disease in the family, which not only affects the social life of the whole family, the content of the conversation, but also the family atmosphere will be different. Because children's behavior is strange, they often need to constantly explain or apologize to people, thus gradually reducing interpersonal interaction. Moreover, the content of the family dialogue is not only monopolized by the child, but also excessively formal, and the child constantly interrupts others and asks questions. In order to accommodate the children, the life of the whole family must be changed according to the existing model. Finally, it seems that the whole family has been infected with Asperger's disease. Someone said humorously: Parents have inherited madness from their children.
Asperger's disease is not due to lack of love, neglect or emotional trauma. Studies have shown that this disease is a developmental disorder caused by brain structure and systemic problems, which may be caused by abnormalities in the chromosomes, or during the fetal period. Caused by a brain injury that occurred just a few months after birth.