Because of frequent travel, the importance of the word "education" is felt more and more.
Early in the morning to catch the train, the crowds at the entrance to the Wuhuan moved slowly. Suddenly, three or four people ran to the back. They rushed to the front of the team and directly put the ID card and ticket under the security eyelids. "The train is too late." Now, help me soon! Hurry!" Then the phantom passed the security check and disappeared into the raging crowd.
Everyone is equal before the rules. Since you know that you have to queue up, you should set aside time. Your Gauss is destroying the rhythm of others. Even if you need to jump in the queue because of unexpected situations, you have to say "please" and "thank you" because no one has to share the time cost for your mistakes.
I let you, is to educate; not let you, is it.
Another time I had breakfast at the hotel, a girl came from the next table, wearing a full set of purple Juicy Couture, with a long waist and wet squatting, and stepping on the white slippers in the hotel room, walking and ringing.
I was chatting with my colleague, and she was noticed because she was too special.
First, she took 6 boxes of yogurt and put them on the table. Then, I came to a plate of fruit salad. I don’t know if you still remember that there was a hot post many years ago, teaching people how to make a self-service salad at Pizza Hut. Such a fruit tower. This is not over yet, she took all the desserts with two white porcelain plates, and a table of flowers...
Maybe you will say that they paid the room rate, here is the cafeteria, how to eat is a matter of others, can you manage it?
Really can't manage. But I don't care.
Just remembering a past year at the Kansai Airport Hotel in Osaka.
That time, I opened more than ten days in Japan. Everyone was tired and became a dog. After staying at the Kansai Airport Hotel, the team leader informed the hotel that it could provide carton packing business and directly check it.
I finally put all kinds of handwritten messages into one box. I went into the elevator wearing hotel slippers. The girl who opened the elevator wore a pink professional short skirt with a delicate face. Seeing that I am wearing slippers, I immediately shake my hand and say a big pass with Japanese-speaking English. The general meaning is that you can't wear slippers to go out to the lobby. I explained, I went to pick up the courier box, the courier point is at the elevator, I don't enter the hotel lobby, so heavy boxes don't want to mention it back to the room.
She looked at my room card, then took the box to her hand, smiled and took me out of the elevator...
When I was mad, I changed my shoes and took the elevator down the stairs. I found another girl in a pink suit waiting for me at the elevator. After seeing the room card, I apologized and said that I was in trouble. Then I helped the box all the way. The shipping office was mentioned.
Really, at that moment, I really hate to find a place to sneak in. Because they use their humble but persistent attitude to tell me what is etiquette and demonstrate what is education.
Appropriate amount of meals is also "forced to learn" in Japan. In the Japanese restaurant in Japan, the dishes are served together. You must empty one plate, and the other hot dish will come up. You look at the waiter from the left and right, and he will stand straight and smile, as if you don’t care how long you have to eat. They only care that you must finish your eyes...
Later, I learned that choosing what I really want is a kind of ability; restraining greed desire is also a kind of ability; rational distribution of financial strength and strength is more of an ability.
These abilities are collectively referred to as the civilized domestication of education.
When I was in college, I was popular with odd jobs. I have a schoolmate, and I was hired as a part-time student at a US chain café to make a sensation in the fellow group.
At a party in the evening, everyone told him about the story in the cosmopolitan café.
"There is a girl who comes at five or six o'clock every night, sitting in the corner of the store every day, sitting until the war."
We scolded him: "Is it so careful? Look at people?"
He didn't answer, and then said, "One day I went to collect the table. I accidentally saw that she took out an old coffee cup from our bag and put it on the table, then buried in the book. Of course, she didn't notice me. Later, I began to pay attention to her and found that she took the paper cup out every day. In fact, she often didn't drink a sip of water for three or four hours."