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Even in the age of beauty, it is still more important to the mind.

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It is said that most of the girls look like dads, and the two daughters of Faye Wong fully prove this little mystery of genetics.

The eldest daughter, Dou Jingtong, was born in 1997. She is already an 18-year-old handsome girl. She is dressed in a neutral style and is confident and free.

The younger daughter, Li Wei, rarely showed up before, but recently fell in love with self-portraits. On the social network, she released a video of the fashion tutorial “How Li teaches you how to take selfies and make-up”. The 9-year-old girl taught the short-haired person seriously. "How to take a self-portrait", "How can I take a self-portrait to be thin", and all of them personally shoot in real shots, that small appearance, can not help but be amazed: "Let a Li Yapeng."

But as can be seen from the video, although I have already had an operation, Li Wei’s mouth still looks very unnatural. No way, Li Wei's congenital cleft lip and palate is the most serious kind, and probably needs to continue surgery after adulthood to adjust. Because of this, some people on the Internet commented that she was scary. They could not see a child's confident and optimistic smile, and the beautiful and enthusiastic eyes. Only those who felt flawed should recognize their ugliness and hide.

On the show, Faye Wong talked about how to treat Li Wei’s illness." It’s just to treat her as a normal child. The child’s growth stage depends entirely on the mentality of the parents. I think our mentality will affect her, especially in her small size. At the time, I really didn't think she was a (special child), I think she is beautiful."

Li Yapeng also has such an attitude. He calls his daughter "God" because "South America has a legend that a cleft lip baby is a god who comes to this world."

Li's luck is that she met her parents who support her and encourage her. Now she is facing the lens's generosity, which is the sweet fruit of this "you are the most beautiful in the eyes of the parents."

I often receive self-portraits or photos of various girls on WeChat or Weibo. I attribute all the failures of my life to the point that "I don't look good." I feel inferior and even need a stranger to affirm myself.

Most of the misfortunes of these people are that "Mothers don't feel good about me." They have not enough support since they were young, they have never really established the power of their own self, and then they have poured a confused soup in the society with a "face value above all else", so life is stuck in the appearance of the closure.

To say that in the appearance of a famous woman, Hong Huang is the most unsightly, this kind of unsightly can not be changed by makeup or decoration, round face, small nose, she has a bright makeup The teacher feels the face of the affliction.

Not beautiful, not beautiful. "The appearance and origin are beyond everyone's choice. If you don't have a temper, look at luck." Hong Huang gave up to make up for it. "My character and intelligence are my greatest strengths, and my appearance is my biggest shortcoming." "Working hard to develop strengths, the shortcomings simply ignore them is the life route that Hong Huang took after he reached adulthood." "My face is already very thick, and it's not unusual for me to be ugly."
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Because she was surrounded by a variety of modern girls, she saw the sorrow behind the exquisite costumes and looks of those "beautiful people." "The only hobby of their life may be to dress themselves and then treat themselves like a delicate dish. The same men who contributed to them."

In the end, Hong Huang said that he had benefited from his own "ugly". "My very unappealing appearance helped me build humanity and personality."

In Jane Eyre, Rochester asked Jane Eyre, who was plain and flat: "You are very calm. Orphans like you, where is this kind of calmness?" Jane Eyre said: "It comes from me." Mind, sir."

If you don't look good, then the mind decides everything, you have to work hard to fight wisdom, knowledge, experience, and level. If you look good, the mind is more important, and you will avoid being consumed by the mad bees and escort you in the sinister life.

To put it bluntly, even in the age of beauty, the mind is still more important.