There is a saying in China that "fostering children know their parents". When they have children, they understand that their parents are not easy at the time, because it is really difficult to raise children. Parents, who do not want their children to be confident and calm. However, many parents can only hate children"s inferiority.
There is a saying in China that "fostering children know their parents". When they have children, they understand that their parents are not easy at the time, because it is really difficult to raise children.
1. The encouragement and appreciation of parents are the sources of confidence for children. Every child has many advantages and disadvantages. If you see his strengths and affirm his strengths, then you can be friends with him. Timely encouragement and more appreciation, this is what children need most. Many children are not interested in learning and how to stimulate their motivation. This is a headache for many teachers and parents. The educator Ausubel said that learning motivation and learning are complementary. Learning motivation is very important. The smart way is to teach him as effectively as possible so that he can learn to learn and taste the sweetness, which will strengthen the next step of learning. Seeing the child"s shining point, affirming him, motivating him, and letting the child gain self-confidence from the recognition of the parents, will be more powerful than the combat education.
2. Understanding and companionship are the key to defeating inferiority Children are eager to be cared for. The most fearful thing is that they are not left out of concern. The most important thing children need is the company of their parents. Parents must respect the growth rules of their children and correctly consider the pressure of growth. In the education of children, parents should overcome the idea of cultivating and cultivating their eagerness and quick success. They should not be anxious, and they should not arbitrarily deny their children, and maintain a peaceful attitude towards the status quo of children, and wait slowly. The child"s growth requires both a material foundation and spiritual care, especially from the care of parents and relatives. Parents should establish a family-oriented philosophy and value the time spent with their children. Education is never a once and for all. At the same time, it is not enough to have education. For example, if you don’t accompany you, you only see the child’s problems and then give pointers and even blame. It will only reflect your own dereliction of duty and lack of patience. Education requires the right approach, a lot of patience, persistence, companionship, and love.
3. Unconditional love is the foundation of children"s self-confidence. Psychologists believe that the child"s self-confidence and his affirmation of his value as a person are fundamentally unconditional love from his parents. What is unconditional love? When the child comes to the world, you will say to the child: Baby, whether you are healthy or sick, smart or stupid, obedient or ugly, beautiful or ugly, good grades or bad, Mom and Dad will always love you, raise You until you become an independent person. To protect the child"s self-confidence, we need to let the child confirm: whether it is good or ordinary, right or wrong, parents" love for themselves is constant. The best education for your child is to accompany you. Companionship is the best sense of security for a child, which will make him brave and strong, and even if he is not recognized by outsiders, he has the courage to face any challenge. Any difficulties and obstacles can be successfully resisted because the parents" love and companionship are the strongest backings. Finally, I wish every child will have enough energy to embrace self-confidence and shine in the stage of their own life with a strong atmosphere!