"Mother-in-law is more and more defeated," said a mother who is too kind, and the children who have been educated have lost more. And if the child wants to grow up, the mother needs to be "successful" in these aspects. After all, "I can't bear the children can't set a wolf." Only when the child is willing to make a difference, the child's growth can change, and when he grows up, he can get a better start.
- "Defective" in the physical exercise of children.
The rumbling father and mother are sports masters. They may be the genes of genetic parents. Rumbling is a proper sports specialty in school. Whether it is running, high jump, long jump, basketball or football, rumbling is very good. In order to help the rumbling to strengthen the body together, the mother not only gave the fitness card to the rumbling, but also bought a lot of outdoor equipment, exercise equipment, the home is simply a small gym, but the mother did not feel that this is a waste, after all, the body has a problem, But the money can't be repaired.
It is precisely because there is such a mother who is "losing home" in physical exercise. Rumble has never been sick since childhood, and is as strong as a cow. When the technology was underdeveloped, many things had to be done by manpower, so at that time the amount of exercise was still up to standard. Now, because of the lack of exercise, many of the physical problems of the human body have begun to erupt, so it is still necessary to say that the mother is "losing home" in the physical exercise of the child. A healthy body is the capital of life. The more parents put in a child, the higher the health value of the child's body.
- "Failed home" in children's reading.
Dong Lei’s motto is “Reading thousands of books and traveling thousands of miles”, so the family especially likes to read books. The family also specially designed a reading corner for Dong Lei in the study. The layout is very stylish and the shelves are full. The books, all over the world, are complete, and the mother even bought a lot of books in the full collection of books at a great price. This valuable book has a sense of pride in the process of reading. Just because there is a mother who is "losing" in reading, Dong Lei is willing to soak in the reading corner every day, happily doing a "bookworm."
Parents are willing to buy a variety of useful books for their children, not only to guide their children on the right path, but also to improve their child's cultivation, knowledge, and knowledge storage. These benefits will always be sent out in the child's future life experience. It comes in handy.
- "Failed" in the child's eating.
Dongdong is a little fat girl, because her mother has never been detained in the diet, whether it is common, or rare food mothers have tried Dongdong. Every time there is a group dinner, many children are hungry, just like they haven’t been squatting for a few years, and Dongdong is very calm, not arrogant, and looks like a child who has seen a big scene.
If the mother is "losing home" in the child's diet, not only can the child grow through the diet, but also at the banquet, there will be no jokes that are unfamiliar with the dishes.
Many people like to eat more at the table, and they seem to have never seen the world in the eyes of outsiders. And if the mother eats the above generously from the child, the child will not be surprised to see the rare food, and the temptation to face the food is stronger, and the table manners can also be done.
- "Losing home" in the matter of cultivating children's interests.
Lingling went to elementary school this year. My mother thought that Lingling was the time to start learning new skills. Because her mother thought that “the skills are not overwhelming,” she filled the Lingling weekend with piano, dance, ice skating, and English training. These projects are also the hobbies of Lingling. Calculating these training courses is also a big expense, and my mother is also a "successful" in cultivating Lingling hobbies.
In the matter of cultivating children's interests, there may be many people who feel that spending so much money is doing? Can children still eat these skills in the future? In fact, if there is more than one skill, whether it is life or work, there will be more protection. It is like interviewing a job with the same two people, but because there is a person who is fantastic at English, and thus has been admitted, no doubt. More than one skill increases your competitiveness.
In fact, it is a long-term investment in the cultivation of children's interest. Although it is not possible to see any interest in the child's interest in the near future, it is impossible to say that the child will get a better development opportunity because of this specialty.