When bringing children to talk about money, they tend to be divided into two types of parents. One is never to talk to the child about money, the other is what the child wants, and the other is to always complain about the lack of money in front of the child so that the child feels himself from an early age. The family is very poor.
These two parents are not reliable. Will you tell your child that there is money at home or no money?
Many parents are definitely not sure. They feel that the children don’t understand it. They tell the children what these are. However, it is the parents’ idea that makes it difficult for children to understand the value of money and it is not easy to know that “making money is not easy”. The truth is that it is easy for children to become grateful.
The video of a mother who educated a child abroad had exploded on the whole network. Because the two children were disobedient, the mother took the two children out for a day of waste. At noon, the child wanted to buy a popsicle because of the heat. Then the mother told him that he couldn"t afford the popsicles when he got the money from the scraps. The children could only look at the popsicles but couldn"t afford the money. In addition to educating children like foreign mothers, there is also such a mother in China. In order to let her children know that it is not easy to make money, the six-year-old son has to remove the screws on the steel clips and has been busy with sweat.
The child said in the video that it is not easy to know that mom is making money, so I must study hard in the future. Modern parents educate their children in the fact that they have made mistakes in their ideas. They feel that they can"t suffer children anymore. Even if they are tired and tired, they must satisfy their children"s needs and fear that their children will suffer bitterly. When some children are at home, the fingers are not smeared with Yang Chunshui. They don’t need to do anything at home because their parents say, “You just have to study hard, ” so even if you have your own dirty socks and underwear, you don’t have to wash it yourself.
They are all done by parents. As long as the children study well, even the children can not do housework, let alone let the children experience the hard work of making money. However, the consequence of parents doing this is to develop the children into "Princes" and "Princesses". The children can"t understand the hard work of making money. In their own needs, they must always make parents responsive. Parents cry and make trouble if they don"t agree. There was a video that was widely circulated on the Internet. A video is a man waiting at the train station. It looks like he is in his thirties. The man’s face is full of vicissitudes and is frozen.
When asked when he didn"t eat, he said that he was too expensive to eat, and went home to eat. Adults are not very sensitive to earning money. However, children don’t understand anything. If parents don’t tell their children to make money, it’s not easy to make money. But if they are compliant with their children, they will only make their children more dissatisfied. We often say that “the children of the poor are headed home early”, but today, this sentence seems so uncertain. In the past one or two years ago, children knew that the family was poor, so they often thought about their parents.
There will be excessive demands, but now all family members are often given the idea of not letting their children lose to others. What the child wants, this will lead to the child’s misjudgment of the family and wait for the child to grow up. The requirements will be higher and higher. However, at that time, personality and habits have been finalized. It is very difficult for children to understand their parents. In the "Deformation Meter" there is such a protagonist named Chen Siyuan, Chen Siyuan claims to be a rich second generation, but in fact his parents are ordinary workers, father is a bus driver, mother is an accountant, the family"s economic conditions were originally Normal life is actually quite good, but Chen Siyuan is obsessed with chasing stars, and even saying that "learning affects me to chase stars" is even more awkward for parents.
Chen Siyuan developed her personality, which was also caused by her parents" unsatisfied satisfaction with her. She knew that her daughter was chasing the stars and spending money, and still satisfied her so that Chen Siyuan could spend a lot of money and lie. Therefore, no matter what the family is, whether it is an ordinary family or a wealthy family, it is necessary to let the children know how to make money is not easy. Otherwise, there will be more "Chen Siyuan" appearing, and after suffering, they will love children. Parents. In the process of raising children, parents should not care for their children. It is necessary for them to suffer hardships. Only after eating hard will they cherish life at hand. Sometimes parents" care will only become a stumbling block for children"s growth, and it will be of no benefit to their children"s growth. Therefore, don"t be a parent who is loyal to their children. Let the children understand the hard work of making money. Golden key.