Children are not obedient, the way to play is the most direct, parents do not have to patiently educate their children, as long as the child is afraid, I am thinking that they will not dare to make mistakes next time! But only by violently snoring the way to educate the child, the child will eventually not become a dutiful son in the heart of the parents, but a child, in the education of the child, no matter which way is used, as long as the use of more, the child"s character will appear defect.
Educating children requires patience. Parents often lack patience in education. As long as the child is not obedient, he picks up the tools and plays with them. He wants to let the child experience physical harm and then make no mistakes in the future, but the child grows up. In the process, there are countless trial and error processes, which require parents to be patient and carefully guide how to do things for people in order to have a fully healthy personality. In educating girls and boys, there have always been deviations in the richness of girls and the lack of sons.
If there are often violent ways to educate children of different genders, what kind of personality traits do they have?
Girl personality characteristics:
1. Personality inferiority Girls who have been beaten for a long time tend to be inferior in character, weak in character, easy to obey, and afraid to make mistakes in their growth. Such girls are inferior to people, are not good at communicating with others, are inferior and selfish, always think that they are doing worse than others, are pessimistic about things and problems, and are extremely vulnerable to domestic violence from their husbands. Childhood nightmare.
2. Lack of security When I was a child, as long as I did something wrong, my parents would use the method of playing. It would leave a horrible childhood shadow for the girl. The insecure girl would tend to like the older man and be easily deceived in the face. Marriage distrust is irresponsible and can easily become an unmarried person.
3. Lack of love The lack of love in the girl"s character is often a fatal blow. The only thing that hurts is the self. In the process of love, I don"t know how to express my love. It is difficult to have a happy marriage. As a mother, there is still a lack of love. For the next generation, it is even more harmful. The mother who lacks love will still use the method of snoring to educate the children, thus making the intimate mother-child relationship alienated and inexperienced. Really warm family.
4. Violent personality For such women, violence is the only way to solve problems. It is known that there is widespread school violence on campus. Many girls in adolescence see violent students, even small ones. At the age of learning to learn to smoke and drink, skip classes, class rebellious teachers, affecting the students" learning.
These rebellious girls often go to work in the factory after finishing junior high school, or work in a nightclub, which is equivalent to ruining the girl"s future! Male personality characteristics:
1. Continue domestic violence A boy who has been beaten for a long time learns to use violence to solve problems from his parents. When he grows up, he will develop the character of a domestic violence. As long as the other party does something that does not follow his own mind, he will use violence to solve the problem. This is very dangerous. Behavior, a lot of harm to the people around you, when the parents are old, it is also possible to release the violence of childhood to the parents, so that no matter how rich parents, if the children are not good, the elderly are often miserable.
2. Antisocial personality Children who have been slightly beaten by their parents will not develop anti-social personality when they grow up, but in childhood, boys who are often beaten by their parents will have a special darkness because they never saw it in childhood. Sunshine and warmth, they have never experienced love, they do not know how to respect other people, how to cherish others, such boys grow up to be particularly vulnerable to harm to society, and bring great harm to society and families. Therefore, parents adopt simple and rude education methods when their children are young, which will eventually lead to deviations in their children"s personality and even harm the character of society. It is not an easy task to educate children. Whenever a child makes a mistake, parents should not immediately anger and attack. They must first calm down their emotions and think about the process of making mistakes. Do not directly call, but use guidance. Reasonable way of education. In fact, from the moment of playing, the parents have personally pushed the child out, so that the child can easily alienate you! I hope that parents in the world will be more responsible and more patient in educating their children.