From a natural point of view, a woman is more concerned about relationships. She is ready to polish this sphere to shine. A woman feels comfort and tranquility when she feels protected in a relationship. Men's relationships are important, but they are not the first place. It is more important for him to realize himself in a career.
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However, if the relationship is based on mutual desire, then the problems must be solved together. A man may not care what a woman thinks is a problem. It is not necessary to demand from him the same perception. It is better to say what is bothering you and ask to participate in solving the problem. It is to ask. If a woman's tone of voice is overtly demanding, it is unlikely that a man will gladly rush to solve her (or even general) problems.
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It is important for women to know when a man will hear their request more quickly. I will not write anything new, just to remind you:
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▫ Respect. Not at the time of the request, but always. If you don't respect him, why should he do something for you?
▫ Ask. Don't demand, don't manipulate, don't threaten, but ask.
▫ Thank you. This is a powerful motivator for him.
▫ Give a confession. It gives the man strength and confidence.
▫ Trust. Without this, the above items will be fake. If you chose to live with this man, trust him to deal with important issues. This will increase his importance and make it easier for him to deal with situations.
▫ Believe in him. Artificially, it won't work. When a man realizes that a woman believes in him, he does not need to prove it to her. His energy will go to creation and development, not to self-assertion in the eyes of the woman.
▫ Praise me. No, you will not "praise him. You will create positive emotions in him related to you. It is not necessary to wait for grandiose actions. Praise him for the little things he does for you and your family.
▫ Give freedom. The stronger the control of the woman, the faster the man will move into a childish position and will demonstrate adolescent rebellion.
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It's the foundation on which to build a relationship. If there is one, a man is more likely to hear a woman.
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But I wouldn't recommend manipulation.
It's either sincere, or it's not.
And one more thing. A man has the right to refuse a woman's request. He may have his own objective reasons. Don't ignore, talk, ask, share, laugh, don't fight a man.
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Create emotional contact, not expectations, in the first place. Refuse the position of "he must", then he will be easier to hear you.
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If you don't want to do all of the above for your man, maybe it's not your man.
Let go.