Always keep in mind the purpose of any conversation - to REALLY TO THE Winner RELIABILITY.
IF NOT, IT IS BETTER NOT TO TALK.
Without joy, any practicality of communication becomes negative. This is selfishness. It is violence.
Food prepared without joy turns into poison.
A child born without joy and mutual desire becomes a punishment for parents.
THE PURPOSE OF THE SOUL IS TO BRING JOY TO ALL THOSE WITH WHOM IT COMES INTO CONTACT.
Communication, in which a lot of unnecessary words and little true warmth, is one of the biggest problems in the relationship.
Any conversation should consist of two-thirds courtesy (kind, encouraging, affectionate, respectful, reverent words, expressions and shades of emotion). Otherwise, cynicism and hardness in the heart develop.
Communication only out of practicality is based on the loss of joy and taste of communication!
You can only exchange something of your own! You should not discuss the opinions and behavour of absent people in a conversation. Discussion of the absent brings suffering to him and to all those present.
If you are not the boss or parent in relation to the person you are talking to, do not ask the person why and why! This immediately translates communication into confrontation. These questions are perceived negatively by the person's consciousness.
Do not worry at all about the motives of the person you are talking to. Just accept it. Feel sorry for him or her and be sorry for him or her. His mind will not answer your questions anyway. He does not know the answer. He suffers himself.
Do not talk about it any more if the mood of the person you are talking to gets worse. This means that the purpose of the conversation is lost. Keep an eye on his or her expression. If the person becomes sad, change the conversation.
Let your correct attitude be WEATHER REPLACE, NOT SECOND!
Any meeting is organized for us by fate. Every meeting has a mission - to give happiness to others! Take any meeting as a gift, not a desire to benefit!
Every moment of communication can be so valuable that you can pay for wrong communication all your life!
Spirituality without culture and culture without spirituality make a person unhappy!
Non-cultural spirituality leads to fanaticism and hard-heartedness.
Spiritual lack of culture leads to hypocrisy and cynicism.
And the combination of spirituality and culture is the key to happiness. This magic word that links spirituality and culture is called - Respect!
Respect is a social philosopher's stone. If a person has achieved something outstanding in life, there was respect for others behind it!
If we do not succeed in something, it means that we do not respect someone.
This is the law, the principle of respect.
Respect both the poor and the rich!
Respect both the healthy and the sick!
Respect both successful and unsuccessful ones!
Respect both the righteous and the sinners.
Respect both the cultural and the uncultured.
Respect both the clever and the foolish.
Respect those who work and those who are lazy.
Respect your own people and strangers.
Respect those who love you and curse you!
The exam of the previous level was passed when you have no envy for anyone! So, you will not achieve happiness at a higher level. As long as there is envy, greed, intolerance to others, it is necessary to clean up the inner rubbish.
Scrupulous and correct performance of all their duties, without waiting for the performance of duties from others — is also the key to happiness and success!
Create a kindness and gratitude! Perfecting in it! This is a cleansing and spiritual activity.
If your actions make people feel grateful, your happiness will grow immeasurably. And envy will melt in your heart.
Perseverance, stability, quality, seriousness and perfection in the performance of their duties gives the person THREE POWER to cope with all the problems in the heart.
If something does not work, if there are obstacles, DO NOT BE BIG PROPERTIES! It is necessary to become calm, balanced, focused on the fact that EACH ACTIVITIES OR ACTIVITIES FOR WHEREOF RIGHTS!
Each situation gives us the opportunity to get rid of some vice in the heart! Each situation highlights your inner problem. It lets me see: what quality of character prevents me from being happy.
The mercy of fate is that it knows our POWERS, and shows the facets of our vices, with which we can correct if we work!
The long journey begins with the first step!
AND THE PLAN OF FATE IS TO MAKE US HAPPY!
The problem reveals itself to us in a form that we can solve. WE ARE GIVEN A SOLUTION THAT CAN HELP US.
Those next to us show us that we have MUSTERS before them, and we have to make them Heathers! And the secret is to do them thoroughly and perfectly! Make the right effort!
Start with your family! In inseparable connections (mother, father, wife, husband, children) it is necessary to be extremely literate, accurate, attentive, conscious, mastering in perfection of the duties! This is the main task and the exam of your destiny! Having found harmony here, you can solve further problems.
If there's a bad relationship in the family, there won't be any other success!
Honor your elders! By age, rank, position, wisdom, and spiritual progress.
Do not focus on your success and achievements. He automatically begins to compare with himself, and not everyone lacks such qualities as the ability to enjoy the successes of others. It is better to keep silent about your own and ask about the affairs of the person you are talking to.
You can only share your achievements with those who can easily achieve it.
Do not provoke negative feelings in people. Respect the consciousness of another person!
Be happy!