What is autonomy?
Self-awareness is the perception and perception of people about the world. Have an understanding of things. At the same time, the children"s self-awareness began to appear. At this stage, you may find that the children appear to be selfish acts that adults seem to be. You will find that children don"t like to share their own things with others, and they have a sense of ownership.
Children at this stage are not liked in the traditional sense. Because of the child at this stage, his belongings, he is determined not to infringe others, and even if it is not his, he will actively fight for it. At this time, parents should not mistake this for the selfishness of the children. In fact, this is because the children are manifested in self-consciousness when their minds are not fully developed. And the children at this stage are also very eager to be praised by others, eager to make others feel stronger than other children. Therefore, at this stage, parents should focus on encouraging children to meet the children"s autonomy.
After my introduction, I think everyone has a certain understanding of the sense of autonomy. In fact, self-awareness is very easy to find. I can tell you about the characteristics of autonomy.
1. Start to like to distinguish between you and me. As I said above, children in this period have already had a personal consciousness. Therefore, they will clearly distinguish between their own and outsiders. Children at this stage do not like others to infringe on their own rights, but also like to violate the power of others. But when their thoughts are blocked or destroyed, they often rebel against crying.
2. The act of refusal. In the autonomy phase, the child’s behavior of rejection is an important feature. Before the child, you will find that he is very active no matter what you give him or what he is going to do, but at this stage, the children begin to reject them. They even use crying behavior to express their dissatisfaction and rejection and express their dislike.
3. Have a strong desire to control. At this stage, the child will think of everything he likes as his own. Whether he likes someone or something, he is not willing to share it with others.
Next, I would like to introduce to you how parents can guide their children during this period.
1. Have sufficient understanding and respect for the child. During this period, the children already have their own ideas, and parents should not treat them as a person who is completely ignorant. Parents should actively communicate with their children. For the children to do something that makes them uncomfortable, for example, parents who are anecdote must not use this as a joke to laugh at the child.
2. Use infiltration education for children. This point also corresponds to what I said in the previous article, the education of children can not take a tough attitude. Because the resistance of the child is particularly serious during this period. Children are also very eager for parents to treat themselves equally. Parents can use a slow and subtle way to educate their children and mature their thoughts and behaviors.
3. Increase your child"s interest in outside things. At this time, parents should take the children to experience life, try new things, and let the children feel the beauty of the world. At the same time, we must actively guide the children to generate ideas about the world to encourage them to think more independently. Keep your child curious. As children age, their perception of the world and their perception of things will gradually mature. The above is my view of the children"s sense of autonomy.
Parents still have to keep in mind that when children are self-aware, what they need most is the patient guidance of parents.