The average family mother is in charge of the financial power of the family and becomes the "accounting" role of the family. At this time, whether the mother can have a family, the key is to see if the mother will spend money.
At home, big and small always have to spend money everywhere. At this time, if you can"t control your family"s wealth as a mother, the choice is to save and save on the child. Some mothers do not agree with this practice. They prefer to be wronged by their own, and also make their children"s life quite rich, because they know very well that the child at this time is a blank piece of paper. How does the parent"s style of doing things and the way of doing things at this time? It will determine what color the child will become in his later life.
Different mothers treat different attitudes toward money and have different effects on their children: First, my mother is not willing to buy new clothes for her children. Her daughter can’t normally interact with others after she reaches adulthood. People say that girls have to be rich and that their daughters are dressed like flower fairy. But the smiling mother doesn’t think so. The smile is now in the sixth grade. The child is now wearing the old clothes and old pants that other relatives and friends have eliminated. He smiles and thinks that the family is very poor and his life is also Very tight.
After I laughed and read the university, I realized that my mother always did this because it was stingy. Nowadays, Xiaoxiao has come out to work. Whenever she talks about her own childhood experience, she always said that this is why she has not dared to find the other half. When I find the conditions, I always feel that I am not worthy of others. There is always a natural inferiority complex. The conditions for finding a job are poor. Although I have a sense of security, my family also dislikes the bad conditions of the man’s family. She always says that now I dare not find the other half, no one is suitable. Second, I am willing to give my children money to cultivate my daughter’s hobbies. My daughter’s career is quite successful in adulthood.
Colleague Xiao Li was born in a scholarly family. Grandparents, grandparents and grandparents like to read books. She was especially fond of reading books when she was a child. When Xiao Li’s mother discovered this habit and hobby of her children, she took time out every week to take Xiao Li to go to the major bookstores in the city to see everywhere. Although this is to cultivate her daughter’s good habits, Xiao Li’s mother is afraid of raising her. It is easy for children to love cheap things, and they will easily forget the books they have read. So every time Xiao Li reads the book, the mother will buy it directly.
The habit of reading Xiao Li has always been Stick to it. This is not Xiao Li, after she joined the work, she wrote her speech and draft to her boss. The boss appreciated her literary talents and arranged her to the position of copywriting. The copywriting and slogan written today are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. At that time, Xiao Li began to work better and better, until now he has already achieved the position of the head of the copy planning department. Parents who don’t arrange funds for their lives, the children who are educated have no life; the mother who will arrange the funds, the life of the children is colorful and colorful, a beautiful dress, a new book, for The economic burden of a family is not that heavy.
Open-minded and long-term mothers are always willing to give this money to their children. They are always creating more worlds for children to reach more.
So what is the difference between the eyes and the personality of the children who are willing to spend money and the children who are reluctant to spend money?
The willingness of parents who are willing to spend money on their children The child is cheerful and decent, and the parents are willing to spend money on the children. The children will not have a considerable psychological burden because of the family"s economic situation. They will be generous in the face of the same age and willing to interact with more and better friends. The popularity is also relatively good, such a child will be very happy in childhood. Children’s eyes are wide-ranging and they are long-term results. They often go to the market with their children, visit a bookstore or go to the museum. These moneys are not a lot of money, which can make children’s eyes more open. Cultivate children"s broad minds and see things longer, and when they are chatting with children at the contract age, they have more topics and are more popular and recognized by others. Children are becoming more confident and the possibilities for success are increasing.