After the baby, every family seems to have a tug-of-war. From the baby’s eating and drinking to the school, most parents don’t want their baby to lose on the starting line and strive to lead everything, eager for their future life. lay a solid foundation. I am no exception! But I found that more and more children are being educated early, for example, when they are about 2 years old, they will be sent to kindergartens or nurseries, and they will try to discover their interests. A variety of additional interest in small classes and early classes must also be arranged.
I would like to say that although parents value the education of the babies is a good thing, sometimes it is inevitable that it will be counterproductive. After all, young babies, physical thinking and development are not enough for them to cope with these so-called advance education, and even there will be many adverse effects. (For the little flower, I have an open-minded mother applauding)
Will affect personal character development
I believe that the company of parents is the best education for young babies. If you leave your parents too early and force them into kindergarten, they will have a sense of loneliness in their hearts. In the long run, they will easily have some negative psychological problems. There are a lot of children in the kindergarten, and the baby with different habits and behavior habits is still not mature. How do you let him get along with other children? It may be bumped everywhere, or it may be bullied by older children. In the long run, it will definitely affect their physical and mental development!
At the same time, because the babies still can't express themselves well, the food, clothing, housing, and transportation will be affected. In the process of communicating with the teacher, there will be a feeling of frustration, which may lead to the generation of inferiority personality.
Easy to get sick
From the time of birth to the entrance of the flower, there is no serious illness in serious illness. I believe that many mothers have the same experience as me. Children are young, small illnesses and little pains, and there are many children in kindergarten. As long as one baby is sick, other children are easily infected. This is repeated and sick, which is very distressing.
When it comes to postponing kindergarten, Huo Siyan and Du Jiang’s son, Um, are a typical example. At the beginning, because I was not 3 years old before I went to kindergarten, I was questioned by many netizens, but Huo Siyan admitted on Weibo that she wanted to let her go to school in the evening, let him stay at home for a little longer, and have more time to look at the world. I think it’s right?
I have seen so many children, and I know that before the age of 4, the babies are very much in need of their parents, which is also the best time to establish a parent-child relationship. In addition to being emotionally secure, they can learn how to express themselves through their parents' education, learn how to eat and dress, and other basic skills that are essential to life. This will have great significance for future admission.
1. Stronger self-care ability
There are too many teachers in the kindergarten, and sometimes there are incomplete cares. There are always omissions, which will inevitably make the children encounter difficulties. If the baby goes to kindergarten late, parents will have plenty of time to teach the babies how to eat, how to sleep on their own, how to dress and go to the toilet, etc. They can also ask the teacher for help according to their needs. On this basis, the babies can better adapt to the kindergarten environment and can help them to enhance their confidence. It will become a lot easier to go to school.
2. Stronger learning ability
Every day, when you get along with your baby, you will know that the baby is really the same every day. Maybe today, I will say two more words than yesterday. Tomorrow is a step further than today. Although the ages of kindergartens are similar, their comprehension, expressiveness, and hands-on ability will be very different. It can be imagined that the older baby will learn more smoothly in kindergarten.
3. Stronger communication skills
Kindergarten entry time is September every year, but for some babies born at the end of the year, it may take more than a year at home. Xiaohua Ma thinks this is a good thing. The baby who goes to kindergarten in the next year will be more comfortable than other children in both learning and life. Under the teacher's praise, the baby will become more and more confident. With such confidence, it will be very easy to get along with other babies, and the social ability will naturally be greatly improved and improved.
With the increase of age, children's cognitive ability, physical coordination ability, communication ability, and self-care ability will be better and better. Parents may wish to give children more time and pay more attention to their growth and development. Of course, every baby is different, parents also need to choose according to their own baby!