Let's talk about what money thinking is all about. And what is it's condition today.
To date, monetary thinking is practically not investigated. All technologies are in their infancy.
American authors have been digging in this topic, and thank them very much. Because the very idea that only you can change something to earn more, that neither the government nor the country is to blame, and that something inside your head is very sensible. But I am against the very method of American authors.
What is monetary and non-monetary thinking?
If the money is hard, sad, and the income does not increase, it is non-monetary or rigid thinking.
A man with monetary thinking takes responsibility for his life. He understands what exactly his income, even in crisis conditions, depends only on him.
A person with monetary thinking is a person with a healthy self-esteem. Monetary thinking as a way of life does not only affect the monetary sphere. The consequence is not only income, but also family relationships, self-development, mental and physical health.
If your surroundings are in order, you will feel inner confidence that you are loved and appreciated. And this is an additional source of strength.
Money thinking is not a science, it is a way of thinking. It's a lifestyle, where money is easy to get, with pleasure, in large amounts and does not cause emotional distress. There can be no such thing that I have money thinking at work, and closed it when came home. There is a click in my head that changes your life dramatically.
Would you like to embed money thinking?
Do you understand now what the relationship between money thinking and your self-esteem is?
Why do you think most people in the post-Soviet space have low self-esteem?
It is passed down from generation to generation. Self-esteem is established at the age of 3 to 6 years. The biggest impact on children is the personal example of parents. If you have low self-esteem, it is impossible to bring up a child with high self-esteem.
Healthy self-esteem is hampered by inadequate parental feedback. The child comes from school and for "five" in the diary gets enthusiastic - well done. If you get a "three" in the diary - you get reproaches and maybe humiliation from parents ! "You will grow up to be a janitor! You embarrass me!" - parents say.
The child understands that if he does not meet other people's expectations, he is not loved. There are associations: as soon as I don't do what other people ask me to do, my mother doesn't love me.
Psychological violence also influences the formation of healthy self-esteem: children are shouted, threatened and dictated their will. "I am an adult, I know better, and you don't get smart"!
There is also physical violence. A young child has a connection in his head: if the most dear person with whom I should feel safe is hitting me with a belt, how to trust strangers.
This turns into a prophecy that comes true. Your attitudes come true. You attract such situations and pay attention to them. For example, if you think that money is made hard, it will be made hard. Because your brain will be looking for proof of what you believe in.
With low self-esteem it is very difficult to develop and be happy, it is difficult to build healthy relationships. Psychological, physical, and even more so sexual violence cuts off self-esteem in the bud.
Therefore, do not shout, do not press, especially do not hit children, learn to negotiate.
If you want to raise a child with high self-esteem, then do your education and be an example for your children.