Now we will talk about human love.
Too many relationships start with the best intentions and end badly. My heart cries every time I see a person suffer for it. By now it is a piece that you are single, perhaps at the beginning by choice, maybe some time ago a relationship went wrong, and you promised not to fall back on Love, or even, simply, you have never met the right man. Yet within you, you feel that finding true love is still possible. But how? What stops you from finding the love of your life, the partner you have always wanted? First of all, be supercritical!
Both men and women, no doubt, when they know a person, have a thousand judgments. He is not tall enough, he is not thin enough, athletic, handsome and all sorts of nonsense.
Judging judgments before knowing people is undoubtedly one of the first causes. Many women, for example, are still very attached to the idea of the prince charming, of that man who renounces everything for love, madly in love with them, economically super stable, independent, and perfect. Exists? And above all, are you so perfect?
- Unfortunately, this image has still remained in the minds of many girls also because of films, cartoons, and much more, so that the image of man is very distorted by reality.
And the men? They want women with breathtaking physicists, who laugh at their jokes, who are always available and who "obey". Well, I ask you too: do you have a breathtaking body? Are you as funny as you think? Are you perfect?
As a first suggestion, therefore, it is to NOT judge at first sight and to give you the possibility of knowing someone BEYOND appearances for once. You might be pleasantly surprised, and who knows, true love may not actually be closer than you think.
Going back to the "perfection" discourse, from many studies, it is actually becoming increasingly clear that people have little, very little self-esteem. Not only do they, therefore, look for partners on the basis of completely fake models of perfection, but they themselves try to make themselves as "similar" to certain models, making their natural and inner beauty fail!
Love needs MORE!
It's time to really start loving each other, to use a real MENTAL MANTRA as for example of what other people think I don't care NOTHING anymore!
It is no secret that because of social media, we feel more judged; depending on what we write or do, we immediately know if someone appreciates or not! To make us appreciate more, we change our thoughts and attitudes. UNBELIEVABLE.
- Another reason to find true love is difficult, it is the lack of a real interest and hobby. Apart from that, I'm not going to tell you that thanks to a hobby, you can find people with you very similar (sharing a hobby, a passion, for example, is a GREAT place to start.). Furthermore, cultivating one's passion helps in the previous point; greatly improves your self-esteem! Improving one's self-esteem, loving oneself, obviously means taking care of oneself. Both men and women tend to neglect each other. Very small example: In this precise moment (yes right now that you read) in front of you comes true love, the one of your dreams! You have no doubt it is him. Is the house in order? Clean car? You, are you in order? And I could go on. Your environment, your person, and not your emotion!
WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT FROM A PARTNER?
It is really important to know what we want from a person. Is it okay that you love and accept us, but must be a person present? A person who wants or does not want children? And what are its VALUES?
- What are the 3 characteristics that must necessarily have? The lack of clarity is often one of the causes for which relationships are shattered. Clarifying this before committing can save you from much pain!
- Obviously we must not be too "rigid" either. (See the part about perfection and Prince Charming). Love changes shapes. When a person will make you lose your head because you will finally understand what is really important to you, in your eyes, he will be the most beautiful person in the world!