We still don't make up our minds and we don't make up our minds, no matter how much you think about yourself. It's just one more lever of influence on you for introduction into a depressed or even depressed state.
As unfortunate as that may sound, this category includes the vast majority of the world's population, including your humble servant, no matter how well we think of ourselves.
These are the people who surround us in our daily lives, to whom we are accustomed and do not notice anything special about them, and that here you will notice, we are them. With its advantages and disadvantages, daily care for yourself and your loved ones. With hope, success, and disappointment. All kinds of things. But we have some unifying goal, we all strive to survive.
We still adapt
And the more difficult it is for us to set tasks, the more we adapt to the conditions of existence. We persistently overcome the hardships associated with wars, epidemics, and famine, sent to us by "shepherds" in the form of experiments. We are improving our inner world, though, at the expense of the knowledge they give us, we still add something of our own. I have already written that there is a failure of the program and extraordinary personalities appear in our environment, but as a rule, it happens very seldom and the system immediately corrects these errors. You will ask, what professions and types of people still fall into this category? I will answer your question with a question. And why do you need to know this? The very topic of the question implies two things that you either want to exclude yourself from this category thinking that you are "special" or try to change something worse. First of all, the second is impossible, no matter how much you aspire to, and secondly, thinking about your inferiority, you put barriers to self-improvement regardless of the system, and this, again, is quite possible.
Going forward
We are born in our own category, all of us of the same genetic type. We all have the same mindset. It contains a certain program in a limited range of mental development. That is, there is a lower scale, the lowering beyond which will be considered a deviation for the worse, namely the degradation to such subtypes as daunas, oligophrenes, imbeciles. And the upper limit of our brain development, beyond which we risk being erased in the literal sense of the word. So, being in equal conditions at the initial stage of our development as an individual, we gradually move in the process of life, first of all, proceeding from the environment and conditions where we were born, we move in opposite directions. Of course, you will notice that there are many examples when a successful person degraded and fell to degenerate, and there are sometimes examples on the contrary, that a person from the bottom to the top level. Don't be deceived, my dears, all this was written in advance and as an example, it was given to you in the form of carrots tied in front of a donkey's face on a stick to go forward.
Rest is not done for us
You shouldn't have to be in the department for a vacation. You sometimes think that you can afford to lie on the couch on a vacation or just on a so-called weekend. Forget, as a rule, you all have families or friends, they will not let you do it anywhere. Some of them will demand attention and you won't be able to resist it, because there are some (we know who) standards of decency in society and you have to follow them. Even in institutions that isolate us from society, namely prisons, you will not rest in the full understanding of the word, because there you will be subject to their regulations and will not belong to yourself.
With care
You're gonna get sick of taking care of you everywhere. You have nowhere to hide in this world because you are a working organism that cannot be left unattended. As banal as it may sound, you are the squirrel in the wheel who thinks it's moving somewhere, but actually stands still for the fun of looking at it on the other side of the cage.
When asked if there is a way out of this state? I'll answer you, there is. Try to put up with it as if it were a given and do more of yourself, do everything to be comfortable in the first place only for you. Do not pay attention to the problems of others, because as soon as you just get into them, they become yours. Do not notice and do not focus on things that do not concern you. Namely, you should not be interested in the problems of the country, society, and even more so in the world. Why do you care if there is a fire, a flood or a war with someone else? You, what can you do to stop it? To influence the forces of nature or to exert direct pressure on the heads of warring countries? Of course not. Your mind is deliberately saturated with such information so that you are distracted by unnecessary information and litter it with it. Throw all this peeling off yourself and repeat once again, do only yourself.
As soon as you start doing this, you'll be relieved. Believe me, your views will change, your communication will change. Empty and worthless people who have been around you for so long will disappear. You will breathe other air.