I'm sure you know the feeling... the Subtle shift in your relationship: it's not so obvious, but it hangs over you like a sword of Damocles, causing you panic and terror. You immediately begin to think that all this is fake and calm down. And some time later, panic and fear again cover you like a predatory animal.
As a rule, women who experience this feeling, turn to me with a secret desire that I suddenly say to them :" well, you! He's not just not losing interest in you, he's still head over heels in love with you!". But I don't say that, because more often than not, if women are basically asking this question, then there really is something wrong in their relationship.
Then why didn't he come forward and say it openly? The fact is that usually men do not immediately understand and accept that their woman is no longer attracted to them. It may take weeks before he really realizes the problem and decides whether to leave or not. So do not expect him to tell you everything at once, it is better to pay attention to his behavior.
Many excuses
He used to dedicate himself to you. Now he increasingly takes work home, has the flu, goes to the gym, gets tired and further down the list. And while no one claims that your candy-bouquet period should last forever, yet if your relationship becomes too many excuses, it means that he begins to lose interest in you. Usually when a man very long and detail explains you, why today he not can conduct with you time, likely, he simply tries to you say, that him not too something and want.
He doesn't ask you questions
When we're passionate about someone, we can't get enough of them. We are curious, talk a lot, clarify and generally give the impression that we want to know everything about each other. If, during a conversation with you, your partner is distracted, increasingly looking somewhere to the side, do not remember what you told him before-this is a very disturbing sign. Of course, before you jump to conclusions, make sure he doesn't have any internal worries. If everything is in order-then your relationship is just something wrong.
It doesn't glow near you
I have a friend who, up to a certain point, all our acquaintances have recorded in the eternal bachelors. He'd dated a lot of women – and they'd all been pretty, smart, successful, caring... but in the end, he'd broken up with them all.
And we were desperate to go to his wedding, when suddenly he entered into a really serious relationship-so much so that some time later he proposed to this girl. When I asked him what made her stand out from all his other passions, he simply smiled and replied: "I am always happy and happy to see her. Even if we meet every night, this feeling does not fade."
He doesn't answer you
For example, does not respond to your messages or sends a couple of dry phrases. I must say that this is not always a sign that you are indifferent to him. Often it's just one of the typical male traits that you just have to accept.But if his silence takes on a more global scale, it's worth considering.
If you think that talking to him is your solo, during which you are desperately trying to melt the ice and break the wall, then most likely it is not he who is mute, it is you who are not interested in him.
Provokes quarrels
This is one of their secret tricks when they want to break up with his beloved, but it does not look like a bad guy. In other words, they are trying to get to you so much that you yourself initiated the gap.
They start picking on you for no reason, deliberately doing things that annoy you, getting under your skin – all in order to force you to break off the relationship. That's the childish, cruel and cowardly way.
No sex
Sex is an important barometer in a relationship. Once you are no longer interested in him sexually, you are no longer interested in him as a person. Be on the alert: there are many ways to seduce your man and rekindle the former passion. But if no effort comes to nothing, then he is no longer interested in you.
One sex
And nothing more. This is the reverse of the previous paragraph. He may not show up for several days, and then-once-and late at night you get a message to meet him or at your home. You ask why he didn't call, he'll say he was busy, you'll believe it, and you'll have great sex. And so the circle