Do you think laziness is some form of pathology? Not at all... Have you ever tried to analyze your life from the point of view of usefulness for yourself of your loved one, when you spent time only on yourself, your thoughts, actions, deeds in the name of yourself?
How beautiful this world is
Think about how beautiful your inner world is, no, not the one around you - nature, people, events, not the one that was imposed on you, advised to read or see. Whether it is in educational institutions that you attended because it is necessary and accepted or those that were caught in the eye and it seemed to you that since they are written smart and great, then knowing their content, you will become better, smarter, more adapted again to the world around you, namely, yours. But in the end, with all this luggage of accumulated knowledge of others, we proudly walk through life, day after day, year after year, sharing our intellect with the people around us, whether they are relatives and friends or just those whom we meet at different stages of the life cycle.
Pretending to be our
We often say other people's quotes, passing them off as our own, and if we find deception, if we get caught, who also knows the source of their origin, we are responsible, and that, which is not mine, I think also, then I have the right to co-authorship. Having achieved some success, nowadays mostly financial, we begin to teach others, look, though I did not finish secondary school and universities, I have something and something, unlike you, so I am smart, and you are a loser, so listen to me. And people do not realize that it is not his merit, but just at some point in his life the situation was favorable to him, he just found himself in the right place with those people and did the right thing to make everything work in his favor (there are a lot of examples, but that's not what I mean). Is it getting a little depressing? Yes, well... Now we're going to have fun...
A little bit about Bummer
So, Her Majesty is a lazy mother. In our general understanding, laziness is a condition of a man when he does nothing, lies on the couch all day long, eats, drinks, in general, a complete parasite on the body of society, I do not say, family, because it is also a cell of this very society. But somewhere in the world this vice should be described and condemned because it couldn't have appeared on a flat place and not be noticed by society. Well, let's turn to classical literature. Yes, here he is, dear, described by Mr. I.A. Goncharov in his novel "Oblomov". That it was possible to think up and write more precisely, as not about the unhappy destiny of pathological trunk and lazy Ilya Ilyich Oblomov. We have been treating the main character with some contempt since school time, because teachers told us so, emphasizing that it is unacceptable and is a bad tone in our society. And, on the contrary, we admire his childhood friend Andrey Shtolts, who is the exact opposite of Ilya Ilyich Oblomov, in whom life boils and who is called to pull this lazy baron out of the mire of laziness.
Why did this happen?
I'm not going to retell the events of the novel, especially all educated people, let's move on to the finale. Disharmony was broken in a man and he was in the happy ignorance of the world around him all his life, forcibly plunged into it and took a festive wrapper for its inner content, turned around, was terribly disappointed and was in confusion when making a key decision in his destiny, bent over, took the opposite of his dreams and thoughts. And the result of all this, death from excessive internal experiences and lack of will to live. Now let's ask ourselves: "Why did this happen?
Without gratitude
Why do we constantly try to take an active part in the destiny of other people, even if they ask us to do so, and more often than not, we impose ourselves to make us laugh at our vanity in front of others, to show that we are, in contrast to this or this unhappy one, in the highest degree of well-being and to solve their burdens and concerns? Have you thought about how you humiliate them?
Do you think these people in your heart will experience deep gratitude? No, all gratitude will be external, there will be shame inside, anger at oneself or the benefactor from one's own helplessness and an even more obsession with one's worthlessness. Well, tell me that the author of these lines is a complete cynic. I absolutely disagree with you. I take daily relations, a close circle of communication of each of us, everything that surrounds us and that we face at work and in life.
And if we analyze...
Let's try to analyze the entire life path of an average citizen, without any special features, race, place of residence, gender, and religion. Let's just add a little metaphysical comprehension to the human being as such from the point of view of some detachment from the earthly realities, so that everything written does not seem like an author's delirium. We will try to build on the so-called examples from life and start from the birth of a man...