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How to understand whether a man likes you?

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It is rare for a man to immediately openly declare his sympathy. But there are signs, seeing that you can make sure that he is not indifferent to-writes about it woman.delfi.ua Hm.

Watching or advancing?

The representatives of the animal world is much easier. Males demonstrate their interest in front of females in every possible way: they spread their tails, emit a menacing growl, sing songs and begin mating dances. Obviously, even a shadow of doubt about whether I like or not, the girl would not have arisen with such Frank behavior on the part of the guy, if it is possible in reality. But still men show their sympathy and interest in you, although not so openly. These signs need to learn to catch, identify and correctly interpret. After all, nonverbal body language can tell you even more than will be voiced by words.

How wonderful it would be if the answer to the question of whether he likes me or not, could be obtained by telling fortunes on chamomile, on coffee grounds, or in some similar way. It would make things a lot easier. But such methods have shown their failure, so do not resort to them. They are useless and ineffective and will not be able to help us. Although women's intuition is developed quite strongly, and they, after talking with a man for a while, can confidently say, they are interesting to him or not. But not everyone has such a talent!

Look into his eyes

Of course, the color of the eyes of the man who would like to please, may be completely different. It has no global significance for us. And here is for moreover, to you understand, there is or not have him to you interest, for his eyes need to watch. When a man is attracted to a lady, he looks at her and admires. Even if he is timid and looks away in embarrassment, his inexorably again beckons to look in your direction. Constantly crossing eyes? You obviously arouse his sympathy. Are his pupils starting to dilate? You arouse certain desires in him, and this alone suggests that he definitely does not care about you. On glance can be much read, not't forget about this!

I'm the best

Eloquent among men are not uncommon, but they are not particularly in demand among women. However, there is one thing to consider. To trigger your interest, the guy can begin to talk about myself all sorts of stories, showing his positive side. If you have no reason to suspect him of self-glorification, and the stories are real, then think about it. Communication with each other generally promotes rapprochement between people, and those who like us, we always strive to tell more about themselves than ordinary people.

It should also be said that, having told some moments about yourself, a man will want to listen to you. If your communication is not in monologue mode, where only he broadcasts, you do not interrupt when you start to talk about something, then the girl may think: ”What an interesting interlocutor. He listens to me so attentively. He seems to like me." And she would be right!

Compliments

A man tells you nice words and notices even small changes in hair, makeup, manicure, clothes? No doubt he likes you. We pay compliments only to those we genuinely like. So less thinking about whether he likes me or not, and more self-confidence. Make a return courtesy, let him know that his actions are pleasant to you. Observe only how he behaves in relation to the rest of the opposite sex. Duty and neutral compliments towards other women say that he is well brought up. There was no need to think that the guy was Casanova by nature. You should think about it only if he makes compliments not with the purpose to make pleasantly the sincere words, and simply seeks to charm all representatives of a female in the immediate environment. For such a man there is no difference between women.

Acts

Actions are an even better indicator than words. There are fewer chances to make mistakes or make a friendly affection for romantic interest. When a man is interested in you (even if he is timid), he will find excuses to do something for you. For example, he will offer to give you a ride, even if you are not on the way. He will use every opportunity to be useful and useful to you. A colleague who likes you, will not refuse to help if you, for example, are not at odds with office equipment, and will gladly help to understand it. He'll buy us coffee or lunch.

The guy who lives next door will help to Park if he sees how difficult it is for you at first given control of the car. Yes, even leave your phone number, saying that you can contact him for help at any time of the day. All these signs are not very significant if they have happened once or twice, but when there are many, it is a signal that is better not to ignore.

Its company

You already enough close are familiar, nice communicate, but would still your communication it seems, rather, on friendly conversations. While the romance passes you by. And suddenly a man invites you into his inner circle. It could be anything. Celebrate a friend's birthday or your own name day. He calls you to stay at the match, where he will take part as a player, and then celebrate the event in some cozy institution with the rest of the team. Any actions that clearly demonstrate his desire to expand the boundaries of communication between you will mean only one thing-he cares about you.

The obvious and the probable

"If he likes me, why doesn't he ever try to touch me?"- you think, and are absolutely right. If a guy likes a girl, he wants to touch her. At first it is quite innocent, for example, to give a hand in public transport or when crossing the road, going down the stairs. Then he would want to take her in his arms, kiss her. Physical and bodily manifestations of interest in relation to the lady that the man liked, as natural as all other signs of attention. Of course, that at the beginning of Dating, not every girl will respond with approval to the fact that the guy on the first evening wants to kiss her. But if time goes by, and he does not show his male interest in you, then this is a sad indicator.

I have no more questions

Still, sincere and genuine interest in two ways to interpret will not work. If you like a man, he will let you know it all available to him in ways that he considers correct. So as not to startle you with its power and initiative, and to bring back the interest. Even in our time of feminism, which has flourished, there are still men who take the first step. When such a representative of the stronger sex will meet you on the way, the question of whether he likes you or not, your head will not even visit. Because the answer will be obvious.

The main thing you need to do in this situation is to remain yourself, to accept his attentions with pleasure and as the most natural thing in the world. After all, men are so pleased with the realization that his feeling is not unrequited and he also likes the lady. Often we can get a signal that we like when we know how to show it. It's no wonder they say-smile more often, someone can fall in love with your smile. So let it is intended to the addressee, who likes you the most!