8. midway effect
Halfway effect refers to a negative influence on the target behavior caused by the interaction of psychological factors and environmental factors when reaching halfway in the process of motivation.
There is a great deal of evidence that the aborted period of human target behaviour occurs near "halfway" and is an extremely sensitive and vulnerable active area near the midpoint of the human target behaviour process.
Psychologists study, when people pursue a goal to achieve half, often have doubts about their ability to achieve this goal, or even doubt the meaning of this goal, this time the psychological will become extremely sensitive and fragile, so easily lead to the end of the way, psychologically called halfway effect.
There are two main reasons for the effect of Halfway, one is the rationality of target selection, the more unreasonable the more likely the goal selection of the effect of halfway; the second is the individual willpower, willpower weaker people more likely to appear halfway effect.
Solution：
Pay more attention to the willpower hone.
Behaviorists have proposed a"big goal, small step" approach, to prevent the occurrence of the effect of the way has a positive meaning.
9, the Bernard effect
The British scholar Bernard is a very interesting scientific genius, he has a cloud of imagination and profound insight.It is said that the sparks of thought that spilled into his dinner table are enough research subjects for others to do for the rest of their lives.In addition to his significant contributions in crystallography and molecular biology, he has also radiated the light of creation in other fields, such as”science".
Bernard's colleagues and students are convinced that, in terms of creative talent, Bernard could have won the Nobel Prize more than once.However, the highest honour of his life was the order of the Royal Society and the post of foreign academician.There is an accepted answer to why Bernard did not receive the Nobel Prize: "he always likes to raise a subject, to throw a thought."First get involved yourself, then leave it to others to create the final result.Many of the original ideas attributed to Bernard, published in the name of others, have been lost because of his lack of perseverance for decades.
This sentence raises a key question, the impromptu fun is too broad, the thinking is too divergent, to the scientific creation is very unfavorable.Posterity will become this phenomenon Bernard effect.
Effect of enlightenment
Erna effect requires the leader of the organization with the spirit of KDU, the spirit of the ladder and the spirit of the green leaf, to the overall situation of the organization as the first, to the development of the organization as the main, to the needs of the work for the urgent, eye-catching talent, concentrated education, let go with it, boldly
Then, with Bernardo, Leonardo da Vinci, Lomonosov and Russell.
Da Vinci was the first of the Italian Renaissance“Sanjay”(the other two are Michelangelo and Raphael), he is not only a painter, but also a construction engineer and mathematician.
Lomonosov is a famous Russian chemist, discoverer of the law of immutability of Matter, founder of the Russian language, mathematician and poet.
Russell is a well-known British mathematician, philosopher and Nobel Prize winner.
Obviously, they have excellent ability to divergent thinking, these three people are cross-cultural, science and two disciplines heavyweight scholars.But can not be ignored, da Vinci era and the Lomonosov era, Natural Science Division far less than now so fine, its research depth is far less than today so refined, sometimes a subject, an experiment, ten years, decades.Russell was the first to study theoretical mathematics, after which he devoted his major energies to the study of philosophy, history, and literature.If he had spent his whole life doing Special Research in mathematics or one aspect, it would be difficult to have so much energy to get involved in so many humanities subjects.
Today's times, it is difficult to see the innate artistic inspiration, but also in the ease of playing Art at the same time, and in a mathematical field of professional achievements so as to achieve the cultural and ethical people; not to mention the amazing achievements in a professional, but also proficient in literature, history, Zhe Qi people.That is to say, in today's era of highly specialized technology, people are all constrained by the Bernard effect.
10, the rules of Bob
Someone did an experiment:a person with a right hand holding 300 grams of weight, then put 305 grams of weight on his left hand, he does not think there is much difference, until the weight of the left hand weight is added to 306 grams will feel some weight.If the right hand holds 600 grams, then the weight on the left hand to reach 612 grams to feel heavy.In other words, the heavier the original weight, then you must add a larger amount to feel the difference.
This phenomenon is called: the law of Bob
Babe's law is everywhere in life.For example, 5 cents a minute of the evening suddenly rose 5 dollars, then you will feel incredible, unacceptable.But if the original $ 5 million property had gone up by $ 5, or even $ 500, you'd think the price would have changed.
For two months on Valentine's day, an Italian psychologist has done such a rosary experiment in two couples with roughly the same upbringings, age and relationship.
Psychologists let one of the lovers of the boy, every weekend to send a bouquet of red roses to his beloved girl;and let the other couple of boys, Valentine's day only to send a bouquet of red roses to his beloved girl.
Due to the different frequency and timing of the two boys ' delivery, the results were very different：
The girl who received the red rose every weekend was quite calm.Although there is no big dissatisfaction, but she could not say: "I see someone gave his girlfriend a lot of "blue", than this ordinary Red Rose is much more beautiful, my heart is really envy!"”
And the girl who never took the Red Rose, when holding the Red Rose sent by her boyfriend, showed the extreme sweetness of being pampered and loved, and then unexpectedly, ecstatic with her boyfriend tightly kiss together.
People with brains will use Berber's law to ease the resistance to doing things for themselves.Small to the merchant's product price adjustment they will rise a small margin, in people are accepted after the increase more; large to negotiation skills, generally experienced negotiators are in the negotiation near the end of the proposed some difficult conditions, and the other is the beginning of the favorable conditions of the temptation, also do not care about those shortcomings later
Some people complain that their lovers are not as good as they were when they first met.In the case of unfamiliar, the other to give you a little care you will feel like the sea, and when you fall in love with many, with the same care you will feel dull as water
We are accustomed to the love of our loved ones and friends;and we are grateful for the help of strangers.This is what the "Babe law" is doing to us.For family and friends, we are accustomed to their care, and expectations are high.Sometimes they are a little less caring,and we can even say bad things about each other.For strangers, we did not hold much expectation,and therefore, a little help from them, we are moved unceasingly.
A new person just started work, in the unit hard performance, conscientious, and then slowly familiar with the environment after Lax down, around people will feel that this person, in front of the performance is false, the character of this person also questioned;another new person, began to appear nothing is right, lazy discipline, slowly familiar with, understand the rules of the unit.Just be able to work on time, but everyone will immediately praise his progress, performance is getting better and better, feel that this person requires progress, much better than the former.In fact, the total amount of work the former has done do not know how much more than the latter.
As the saying goes, good people are hard to do.You work hard, but because of the wrong one thing and put all the previous credit; and the bad guys can be praised for doing a good thing.Thus, the feeling of things are also an illusion, it seems that the latter "true villain" than the former "hypocrite" is more trustworthy.In fact, these are the laws of Berberis in control of your feelings only.
So, the change is not a fact, but a change in your feelings.
We feel sensitive, but also inert;it will deceive our eyes, it will aggravate our feelings and lost reason.So, not too self-righteous,we should treat all sentient beings with a humble heart, so that we can make fewer mistakes and accumulate wisdom.
Babe law tells us that the giving side to do more to facilitate the things, do less to do the icing on the cake, try not to do the superfluous things; and the recipient to know how to cherish their bit by bit income, treat people around.