Sometimes a relationship breaks down as soon as it starts, and men explain it with a vague phrase: "It's not you, it's me. With this polite formulation of the girl easily agree, but the fact behind her hides only a reluctance to clarify the relationship, and not a confession of guilt. Indeed, it is easier to part with a person without hurting him, but because of this courtesy girls do not notice their mistakes and do not have the opportunity to correct them. If your new relationship ends over and over again after a couple of dates, you probably belong to one of those categories of women that men are trying to avoid.
What kind of women men avoid
A successful businesswoman
Many of the strong sexes who were brought up in traditional patriarchal families believe that it is the man who should dominate the relationship and be the head of the family. This cannot be achieved if the main source of income is in women's hands and the man earns much less. A relationship with a successful businesswoman makes him feel weak and vulnerable, so he will seek to avoid it. If you have achieved success in life, then a happy relationship can be built with a gentle and gentle man who will not challenge your leadership and will take on the role of a wingman. Another option is a man who is more successful than you, who will not be pressured by your position and high income. In all other cases, the relationship is doomed to failure, so do not waste time on them.
Vasilisa the Wise
Although men say that they dream of a beautiful and intelligent soulmate, in fact, smart and educated women scare them. The reason is trivial - next to such a lady they feel belittled and seek to get out of a relationship with her. If your level of intelligence is much higher than the average, then do not show it too actively. This is an important advantage when hiring, but in personal matters it becomes a serious obstacle. Most guys dream of a nice and gentle girl with whom it is interesting to communicate on different topics, but too smart ladies they avoid. If you are one of them, it is better to keep your knowledge to yourself, at least in the first stages of acquaintance.
Miss Melancholy
The woman, who is in a permanently depressed mood, constantly complains of bitter fate and constantly scolds her exes, acts on men as a red traffic light. This attitude to life is like a swampy bog, which they want to bypass the tenth road. And it makes sense, because it is almost impossible to like a melancholic girl, she will always find a reason for dissatisfaction and will scold her new gentleman, as well as all former ones before him. Guys love girls who radiate positive, happy with their lives and themselves.