...Love
• Remember that differences between you and a partner are inevitable.
Sometimes the differences in the couple carry a critical character - for example, one person prefers a vibrant and eventful life, and for the second time, there can be no fuss and noisy campaigns. Such a relationship may become unhappy due to objective reasons, but problems often arise due to a similar difference in partners, when there is a difference in differences When changing from a partner, you must try not to cross the logic and healthy behavior.
Neuroticism, or a tendency to anxiety, depression, excessive demandingness and a frequent change of mood, is a much more common reason for unfortunate unions and their decay, rather than a mismatch of personal qualities.
Even though personal qualities contribute to the maintenance of harmonious relations over many years, differences between two people are inevitable.
Mind and Body
Connections that create brain neurons are responsible for the activities of our entire body. In the meanwhile, before the age of 20, our brain is very easy to establish new neural connections, which will allow us to quickly learn new things or develop our memory. But it is from 20 to 30 years old that such communications are formed, thanks to which we learn to relate to failures and losses, it is easier to keep conscious plans for acceptance. It is very important to remember the irreversibility of how much it affects our mind and our body.
Since, between twenty and thirty years, the last critical period of brain development reaches a climax, this age, as one psychologist has said, is “big time” and big. Of course, after thirty, the brain remains plastic, but it will never offer us such a huge number of new neural connections. We will never be able to learn something new so quickly. We will never be so easy to become the one whom we hope to become. Therefore, inaction in this period is very dangerous.
• Successful experience will help you become confident in yourself.
Many young people, even having achieved the desired desirability, continue to test the colossal stress that is associated with self-sufficiency. Β The result of a dream seems to be hell, and a serious one should be a heavy load. Assigned, they often quit their job and continue to watch with success and certainty in themselves.
Any successful person, when he was not adequately competent, but constantly working tasks, he gained experience, which allowed him to become confident in his abilities. Whatever the discussion is about love or work, self-confidence prevails over insecurity only in the case when it is based on experience. There is no other way.
Young people of more than twenty years of age who do not feel anxiety and do not feel incompetent at work, as a rule, are too presumptuous or do work that does not meet their qualifications.
• Hurry up to work on yourself; it will not always be easy for you.
According to the results of research by clinical psychologists, at the age of 20 years, personality is only forming, and after 30 it is almost not plastic - friendly remain friendly, and the introvert will remain an introvert. Clinical psychologists are aware that from all stages of their life, they will be twenty to thirty years old — the best to change.
Investments in love and work start the process of maturing personalities. The status of a company employee or a successful partner facilitates its transformation, and constant living at one place helps to be more measured
Lifestyle. On the contrary, young men and women over twenty years old, who do not strive to live life to the fullest and move on, experience such feelings as depression, anger and estrangement.
• Start thinking about the future before it comes to and locks you to the wall.
The displacement of benefits to the benefit of the present, and not the future, is an inhumane property, which is most strongly manifested when you are young. We all heard the phrases “life is given once” and “have fun while you are young”. Young men and women of more than twenty years of age constantly hear and say that they have ahead of time for the troubles of adulthood, but it is very small for a long time. Connecting the present with the future is truly a tedious task.
Determining when to take careers and create a family is quite difficult. It is much easier not to think and hold on to the problem later. However, young people of more than twenty years old, living outside of time, as a rule, are not happy. It’s, all the same, to live in a cave, in which we cannot determine, which now often does not know what should do and why. Sometimes this continues until it is too late to change something.
Will this help me?
The future is not written in heaven. There are no guarantees. Therefore, take upon yourself the responsibility for your life. Set goals. Find a job. Create a family. Do not forget about the time. Bring determination into your life.
Your fate should not depend on something that you didn’t know or didn’t do.
Now you make a choice that will determine your whole life.