But on the way to the labor exchange, you're going to make your own self-esteem quite amusing, remembering how you put "this idiot" in his place. Just don't overdo it, so you don't have to quit your job not of your own free will.
Option 3. Turn into the devil.
You become like the devil, like your boss, and in the style of "the fool himself": say that he has no right to criticize you, because he makes mistakes, is late, etc. And in general - you are a qualified specialist and are able to cope with the work without his instructions.
This is a bad choice. Bosses don't like it when subordinates point out their shortcomings, especially publicly. Therefore, the result here is more likely to be "Star Wars". And your risk - to be fired by the article, for any mistake you can make, because now you will be constantly monitored.
Option 4. Sprinkle ash on your head.
You fall on your knees, tear your shirt on your chest, sprinkle ash on your head, humbly apologize and ask for mercy on you. Then say that you regret that it was stupid of you and that it will never happen again.
This option is a little better than the previous one. By changing anger to mercy, the boss can give you forgiveness. Only one thing is bad. If you have even a drop of self-esteem, you won't be able to get rid of the feeling that your feet have been wiped off for a long time. In addition, meekly accepting humiliation in his address, you recognize your own insignificance. Demonstrating a lack of pride and self-respect, you risk that not only the leader, but also your fellow employees will eventually cease to reckon with you.
The fact is that organizations are very developed phenomenon of imitation. And if a reputable leader or boss, God forbid, chooses you as a "boy (girl) to beat", sooner or later his behavior will start to be copied by other employees. The pack follows its leader - the ancients knew about it.
I am convinced that you deserve more. In the end, you came to the firm to sell your professional knowledge, experience and skills, not yourself personally. Therefore, the manifestation of self-esteem is quite appropriate. You can defend your interests and keep your job.
Option 5. Let "blow off steam"
First, to avoid conflict, it is best to let the boss speak out, i.e. "blow off steam", before trying to answer. Wait until he is able to listen to you. You will then admit that you have made a mistake, that you regret it, and that you will be more attentive next time. Then you add that your boss (boss) speaks in a pretty harsh tone, and you don't see the need for that.
Second, it is best to clarify your relationship with your boss in a confidential manner. Also, don't try to give the boss an ultimatum like, "If this happens again, I'm quitting your firm right away. Bosses can't stand it when subordinates make conditions for them. In the end, you will always be able to write a letter of resignation without any Chinese warnings. It's better to just say that this kind of behavior prevents you from focusing on your job duties. After that, politely but firmly ask your boss to moderate his fervor.
Of course, there is a risk that you will be fired, even if you raise objections in the correct form. There are psychopathic bosses who do not tolerate any self-respect from their subordinates. But most managers respect those employees who honestly express their opinions in a proper - confident and correct manner, without hurting their supervisor's self-esteem.
Option 6. Universal.
This option is universal, and you can use it with all the above options - have ways to retreat, and for this purpose, create them. Leaving your job is much easier than poisoning your and your family's life with your boss's poison. Although for many people loss or resignation from work - it is an extreme measure, which a person is able to. After all, who wants to be left without a livelihood.
And, as a rule, the search for a new job at the same time as the existing one is problematic. After all, you need to go to interviews that are held during working hours, and you need to ask for a variety of excuses. Therefore, it is necessary to have a stock of funds of such size that you can live without a job for at least 6 months. Have such a reserve, and if you do not have it yet, then create it and save it in this fund every month.
Another important point is the creation of additional sources of income. What kind of questions will you ask? Anyone. After all, our world is not standing still, there are many opportunities around us, and since you are reading this article, one of these opportunities is the Internet, because you are already an Internet user. Why not start creating additional sources of income on the Internet, as I do.
However, there are bosses to whom many strategies are not only ineffective, but also dangerous.