Gallant, smiling swarthy beauties, and often not at all handsome, together with the turquoise sea and the romantic coast, seems to our tourists to be some exotic and, practically, equal to the sons of the Ottoman sultans, hot young people. And here is their most important mistake. The tourist comes to the country completely unprepared for relations with people of other culture. For them, Turkish men are associated with Kazanova, whom many people are eager to curb. Here, ladies and girls lose their heads quickly, often - brains, and often - the frame of decency. Particularly sad and dangerous reasoning in the spirit of - I am on vacation, so you need to rest at full, which often implies sex adventure and the inevitable conquest of as many local men as possible. Such a relaxation of the female contingent at home is clearly embarrassed to afford. If you put it all in one phrase - foreigners go to Turkey with their own charter, without even thinking that people in another country, most likely, have an original culture, mentality, and traditions. But it is unfortunate to note that the Turks suffer the same misfortune - they evaluate foreign women strictly within the framework of their cultural traditions and stamps imposed by their own culture. If we reduce everything to reality - namely, that for the Turks the cultural component remains most often unchanged, the result of what is happening is, in fact, disappointing.
The resort zone of the country in summer is often a kind of cauldron, where local Turks, visiting Turks and, of course, tourists mix up. The bulk of the visiting Turks are hotel staff, whose earnings are very low for the average Turk. Therefore, these types of work are most often used by students on vacation, villagers, and Kurds, who come in search of earnings during the season. A rural resident, a Kurdish man who has escaped from traditional restrictions, or a young student, is most often a sexually hungry native with overrated testosterone, and even able to invest a romantic vein in a relationship with the opposite sex. This is the main army of Turkish cavaliers in the resort area. But do not be deceived. Ninety-nine percent of Turks, having achieved their own goals - sex, girl's love, material incentives for European ladies, are unlikely to exchange the traditional family way of life for marriage to a foreigner. The main reasons are the hostility of society, significant cultural differences and, often, religious background. Another important nuance for the negative outcome of resort relations is that it is often very difficult for a foreigner to distinguish a Kurdish woman from a Turk. More conservative Kurds are much more categorical in their assessment of foreign women, and it is even more difficult for Kurdish society to admit a foreigner to its ranks.
The Turkish media are also very active in mocking the image of a foreigner, more often a Slavic woman, as a woman of easy virtue. Unfortunately, the objective reality only confirms this - in Turkey, among prostitutes a large number of Slavic women are Slavs, and at the resorts among frivolous holidaymakers, changing their boyfriends as gloves and cheating on their husbands - a very large number of Russians and Ukrainians. Turks, of course, see all this and draw the appropriate conclusions. And this is not only a resort area, but the general state of affairs in the country.
Therefore, we can say quite definitely: unfortunately, it is the availability of sex that often attracts Turks in foreign countries. Plus, there is still some exotic flyer - a bright girl with Slavic features. Turks are spreading among themselves almost like legends what a foreign woman, who is sophisticated in sex, does in bed, and dream to drag a Slavic woman into bed at least once in her life. In this case, there is nothing to be surprised about. If a Turkish woman is not available for free relations, and his only woman in bed is his wife, the sophistication of a foreigner in sex, of course, makes an indelible impression on the Turk. That's why the Turks throw their entire arsenal at achieving their goals without being cavalier with simple flattery and a bunch of standard romantic phrases. And that's why the classic Turkish phrases that our women are either very beautiful, sexy, well-groomed, kind, the best in that and that, and the Turks are ugly, stupid, hysterical, hysterical, the worst in this and that, this is the most popular vocabulary for the humiliation of ladies and girls. It's a pretty simple but effective way of courtship from time immemorial - to say only what they want you to say. Therefore, the Turks know how to use it - and in the resort environment and on the Internet.
What is the difference between foreigners and Turks? There is a difference, but it is often full of standard stamps. For example - Europeans, most often Germans, are rich and can be used as a springboard to move to Europe, and Slavic women - undemanding immature, agree to everything - they are easier to promote sex and travel for her own money because their husbands or their guys, bad in sex and alcoholics. All foreign women, European women, and Slavs are considered hungry for sex.
But not everything is so gloomy. What we have written about is, of course, quite a generalized situation. There are not so few marriages of Turks and foreigners, but when evaluating them and drawing conclusions, we can rather pay attention to the fact that they were based not on interethnic relations, but on interpersonal ones. Most often, rather successful marriages between Turks and a foreigner arise on the basis of long personal relationships. These are those who got acquainted at work, at school or in other environments, which allowed them to build normal personal communication. Personal daily contacts give an opportunity to get to know and understand each other well, as well as to learn to adapt to each other and within two cultures. Virtual relationships, on the other hand, often collapse even with their own countrymen.