Hey, man.
You probably spend a lot of time on your business, your career or your business, like me. You clearly understand that a man is a result. You are 100% responsible for everything that happens in your life. It is not a secret for you that with the "right" woman, you will become even cooler, more successful, happier.
But what to do to meet such a woman? After all, we grew up in an untraditional family. We have our own complexes, fears and limiting beliefs.
Yesterday I talked to an attractive girl and asked if she is often met in public places? The answer was, "You're the first one in a few months..."
In this article, I want to give you a step-by-step instruction that will help you, after reading it, to add confidence and understanding (without extra) to your acquaintance with worthy women.
How to get acquainted with a decent girl?
Determine which "Yours" women
Please, make up your mind: what kind of women cause you only emotions, what kind of sexual desire you have, what kind of desire to take care of and be together for many years.
For example, I am an extrovert of a logical mind. And I feel good when a girl introverts creative character. That is, I believe in addition.
I do not call to follow my ideology. Just think about how it is "yours". And don't waste a lot of energy on "not yours".
Stop fighting fear
I've spent many thousands of dollars on my personal growth, training and psychological counseling. And I still have a "fear of approach" (as pickups call it).
What has changed? My attitude toward fear has changed. Now I do not focus on the question "how to get rid of fear?
Scary? So you're alive. He's never going anywhere. I assure you.
I don't care what you say
Sounds paradoxical. The Internet is full of prepared phrases for acquaintance with girls. Don't waste time on this nonsense. You don't focus on that.
"Girl, can I meet you?
"Hello. Your mother doesn't need a son-in-law?
"Good afternoon. And where is the library here?
Even with the help of such stupid phrases you can interest a worthy woman. How?
Now you will understand everything.
Internal state
The most important thing is the inner state. This is not what you think of yourself. And what kind of man do girls and women feel you?
How connected are you to your "inner man"? Come to the mirror, look into your eyes and say: "I am a man!
Did you? What do you feel: comfort, excitement, resistance, what?
This point is the key one. What you have to work on. Ideal when you feel warm and comfortable inside. This is your key pillar.
Beliefs
No matter how much a woman tries to get acquainted with her, I assure you that she enjoys male attention.
And if the face is crooked, politely ask forgiveness for "worrying" and wish her a wonderful day/evening.
It is great if...
...you'll thank her mentally for showing her the true attitude towards men at once (and not later), in principle. You won't make her happy and you won't be happy yourself.
What is the minimum set of beliefs a man needs to have:
I am a man and have the right to communicate with the woman I like.
I am a worthy man and I like worthy women.
Women like my attention.
So far enough.
Mistakes:
1. you try to "dance" in front of everyone.
2. you want to like everyone. Leave these "dances" for "boys", who have so far bad with self-esteem.
The task of meeting a girl is to meet the one with whom it will be mutually good.
So do not try to impress. Be yourself true. Be guided by the feeling of "I am a man" and act on it.
But it's great if you like each other as you are? (Not the mutual sympathy of "masks").
Be sure to...
...ask me the first minute, "Do you have a boyfriend?"
Because a lot of girls will enjoy your attention and effort, and when you offer to exchange contacts for a meeting this week, she will say, "I have a boyfriend/husband. It's a stupid situation and a waste of time.
How I have a dialogue with a strange girl who seemed attractive to me:
Hi... (waiting for her to answer).
I liked you (looking at the reaction: irritation/positive/ what? This is her true "face").
Do you have a boyfriend?
If she doesn't have a boyfriend, she's positive, attractive to you, you like her even in such a short period of time - these are positive signs that are important prerequisites for exchanging contacts and meeting soon.
Conclusions:
Decide on your type of woman
Don't fight your fear.
Make sure you have the right beliefs.
Dot all the "and" points right away.
Thank you for reading it. I hope the article was not too harsh.
P.S. Only being a true man around you will be a true woman. The same goes for women.
All love