Women's goals - what are they? How can women's true goals turn a "middle manager" into a man of a millionaire? How can a woman unconsciously hinder a man's success?
I could write my views to answer these burning questions. However, I think it would be better to look at an example from your life. An example that I came across quite randomly on the Internet. And just had no right not to share it with you.
Below are the texts of thoughts, experiences, successes, and obstacles of a woman who set a goal to help her husband become a millionaire. A successful and wealthy man.
I recommend that you read every word. Very valuable.
If I continue to behave as I am now, my man will never be a successful wealthy man, so I will not be able to live on the level I would like to.
I realized that in order for my man to fully open up as a man and reach great heights, I need to become the kind of woman who wants to do the impossible for whom I would like to do the impossible, to become a muse of inspiration for moving forward.
Maybe it's a very simple task for someone, but it's not easy for me.
First of all, I'm a very thought-provoking person. Every time I come up with something new that I have to put into practice right away.
My man doesn't keep up with me, I always think he's slowing down. He does not have time to think about his desires and goals, because most often we realize mine. In short, I simply suppress him with my activity.
Secondly, we have a very different approach to life. I always think so - you need to think about something, set a goal and go to it, and all that is needed (money, the right people, etc.) will appear by itself.
He has another approach - he can think about something or approach - he can think about something or want something if he already has the right resources.
He has difficulty with me, and I have difficulty with him because of these different approaches. It always seems to me that we're just stalling, and he thinks that we're moving forward slowly, and that's okay.
So I realized that if I want to see in him what he is not, then I need to change and behave like a woman, which is also completely different for me.
I need to think through a strategy to achieve my goal. To date, I have made a list of how I should behave and what I should do to slowly approach my goal
So far, so good. We listen to training lessons on our activities. However, we had a little argument today because it was not agreed in advance how we would spend the day.
He tunes in to one thing, and one to another. He started to resent that I didn't want what he wanted. This time, I tried to smooth the corners, soothed him down.
As it turned out, he was tired and didn't want to do what I suggested. In short, I somehow became more conscious of our relationship.
I used to be upset that he was annoyed with me and probably would have packed up and gone to my girlfriends' house.
And now I keep asking myself the question: "What do I want to do now will bring me closer to my goal or not?" And then somehow I start looking at everything in a different way, more sober way, my emotions go somewhere and I can manage the situation.
Today I realized my big mistake, which I always make in the relationship with my husband - I control his every move.
Because of the fact that I control him, he is afraid to do something on his own once again, he is used to agreeing with me every step and even does not notice what it does, he consults with me, even for some nonsense.
We should try to avoid such stereotypical behavior. I want him to become a millionaire, and I control some penny questions related to the placement of the task for freelancers ...
We just talked and decided that I will try not to control him, and he will make his own decisions and not ask me for advice on anything. Actually, the fact that I have everything under control comes from my family.
My mom won't let my dad step in without her consent. I want other relationships where a man makes his own decisions and only advises on important issues. It is good that I noticed this mistake in myself. I will fix it!
Everything is going well with us, we have established very good relations. I try to show myself as a woman, every time I say something to him, I translate my words into a recommendation form, not a commanding one.
Now, no matter what we do, he always makes the decision, and I completely agree. This is so unusual for me. But it doesn't bother me at all, I even like the fact that the decision is always his.
I like all the decisions he makes. I feel that he has even become more confident in himself.
It turns out to be great to be just a woman. I feel like I'm softer, softer myself. When he asks me to do something, I try to do it right away, but before he does, I find reasons not to do it or not to do it right away.
I can see he's trying too. For example, he is fiery, emotional, can scream if something is not his.
Recently he has been trying to hold back and even said that he wants to learn how to manage his emotions. In general, I am glad to see all the changes that we are going through, I feel that we are on the right track and I am very happy about it))))
The other girl's comment:
No one canceled our female intuition 🙂 itself married for 4 years. The other day, literally, the savings in the account exceeded one million. Some kind of psychological barrier to this amount. So far, there have been 500, 700, 900, and it wasn't even believed that soon they passed.
And now it's like her husband's wings have grown. I am very proud of myself, satisfied and believe that there is nothing impossible.
The main support, no criticism. And if criticism, it is very cautious and from afar. So that it turns out that he invented everything himself, and not his wife put everything in its place. And be surprised that he is so cleverly thought out everything perfectly.)
What conclusions can be drawn?
A woman is the engine of a man's progress. Can, as well as limit his success, and turn it into a cool achievement. What do you choose?
https://pixabay.com/vectors/target-arrow-bulls-eye-bullseye-2070972/Thank you for reading this article. I believe in feminine women and courageous men.