My husband and I have been married for 5 years, my daughter is very cute, now 4 years old, our marriage has always been very good, when love when a lot of twists and turns came together, I always thought that this love of life will continue, my husband is now a manager, I am the white-collar, our income is very good. In that big city, everyone admired our marriage. But at the beginning of this year, I inadvertently saw her husband's call records, and found that a number has been talking, many times a day, after crying, he told me just a moment of fresh, absolutely did not do sorry my thing, and then let me find out their contact, when I say cruel to divorce, her husband cried, he said too messy, people inevitably make mistakes, wrong did not out of character, changed no longer wrong. When I saw this message, I was very pleased, now things in the past for a long time, but I still can't FORGET, Always can not figure out why this happened, is I no longer have charm in front of him, he usually just hear someone else have an affair, is the most disciple, but why he would back me to call often has entertainment, very late to go home, often this time, I was very angry, before or when the staff, always accompany me to chat, walk, do something delicious, but now all these are less poor, how can I eliminate their suspicion psychology?
Autumn heart reply：
Since marriage has not changed, life must continue, I believe that your heart is very clear again such suspicion will only go down the disadvantages of no profit, so, to regain the trust of marriage is very important, a marriage without trust, such as high-rise building on the sand, at any time dangerous.
As he said, in such a society, people will inevitably have to make mistakes, of course, we can not be taken for granted as an excuse to make mistakes. At least he stalled after you know it, and proved that he still loves you and cares about you and the family, so it is worth to forgive, but if you continue to be so suspicious, I fear that sooner or later he will not be able to truly betray you--since I do not do you doubt me, then why should I fight, if you care about this marriage, it is necessary to pay attention to your behavior and mind.
After many years of husbands and wives, there will indeed be aesthetic fatigue, the social temptation too much, so he was unable to hold, not on behalf of your bad or no charm, so do not affect their self-confidence. In addition, in his career progress at the same time, you also do not relax to enhance their efforts, both inside and outside the delicate, generous decent wife, I'm afraid who will try to cherish, not many men really want to give up the family for a moment of fresh. You don't have much time to speculate on what he is doing, and women should love themselves no matter when and where. If a person really wants to do bad things, you can not see, if he has a love for the family, will be self-discipline, too worried, even their own grace and calm also lose, become hysterical and unattractive.
Autumn heart Sister hello, before only on the TV to see the encounter, the man or the affair, now happened to me. The big boy offered to make friends with me.I'm happy and nervous because I haven't had it before. In my own opinion, I only fantasize about at first sight not believing that there really is. But at the age of marriage, I think the big parties are well, at least not to miss. So a few times, he said very directly want to hug me. I think he is very frivolous, very casual, after all, met once or twice. Nearly 30 people, up so directly. At least I can't accept it. But he said feeling matters most! Saying I was cowardly and submissive, I let him hold. Said I contradicted, I decided not to contact after. But then he became a man. He opened his mouth, told me about his past feelings, said his later wife's love of responsibility, said some of their own ideas. I think he's very mature. It's not just people who play with feelings. Autumn heart Sister, I am very messy, I do not care about his family is good, good job, I want the character, a real man. I don't know if I should continue with him.
Autumn heart reply：
Modern society, what is the rapid development of the times, can not be seen once or twice to embrace and define each other as frivolous people, look at the character of a person, or to start from life together carefully observed in the emotional sometimes really really appreciate it is difficult to say. Since Love, since the appreciation, may wish to frankly enjoy, Of course, appropriate self-protection or to, after all, difficult to predict, some men will be sweet words. With the edge, Xpress, let the feelings have room for development. If you see virginity very important, do not give it easily; if you are willing to give, to remember that no matter how the feelings go, do not become a burden, so you may be more at ease to love, after all, no one knows what will happen tomorrow.