I got a scholarship in May of 2005 and went abroad for blogging. after going out, I realized how important my husband and children are to me. When I made this decision, I asked my husband, and he let me make my own decision, so as not to regret it. In July, my husband went to Suzhou to start a business, and I decided not to separate from my husband. even if I lived a normal life in a small town, I would have a family of three together, so I decided to quit my job as a university teacher in Beijing and go with him to Suzhou. But there are no professional counterparts in Suzhou, had to settle for the second job in Shanghai. I think Suzhou and Shanghai is just an hour drive, do weekend couple is not a bad thing. At the end of November, I happened to find my husband and his human resources in October. at that time, I did not think much. Behold, my heart is broken, and the sky is falling.
My husband and I were classmates in high school, fell in love for four years, lived together for two years, married for seven years, the relationship has been very stable. He is the kind of care man who is hot-headed with his wife and children. he has no friends, and he only focuses on our family and his company. He is neither diligent nor lazy, neither selfish nor modest. I talk to him introverted, small things I take the lead, big things he takes the lead. So seeing their intimate chats and seeing them do some intimacy from time to time in the office, I was kind of hysterical, crying and shaking the bed that night. I didn't sleep all night, he came knocking and I didn't answer, and then he snores until morning. The next day before he went to work, I asked him to hug me and he hugged. I wrapped the dumplings and waited for him to get off work. On the third day, I returned to Beijing and asked him to quit her before leaving. I returned to Beijing seven days, he did not have a phone text, the eighth day I can not help, text asked whether he quit her? He said she was the best human resource he had ever met and would lose interest in doing things if he quit her. I go back: this way we could get divorced. A day later he texted her to say he had fired her.
In December I took my son to Suzhou on his birthday. he asked his son to go to kindergarten. Then every Friday I went to Suzhou from Shanghai, and on Sunday night I went back to Shanghai. Two days after the weekend, he always said to work overtime, I will take my son to buy a home, visit the park. He rarely accompanies us, fixing the ML once a week. Until the new year, we never mentioned it again, I was more gentle than before, he was more diligent, but we all know that we are not the former self, no one has forgotten it.
We drove back to Beijing for the New Year."He said, " isn't that great?"Back home in Beijing, to see a familiar scene, I just want to cry, over the past, things are changing, he and I have no previous harmony and intimacy, seven days no ML. After driving back to Suzhou after a year, I think this situation will be very bad again, asked him what the idea.
In March, the day is still, I go to Suzhou every weekend, the only change is that we do not ML, he either watch TV or asleep. I suspect. He had said before that he had lost contact with her since he opened it, and I believed that he had been texting and texting regularly, and I had suspicions, but I didn't check his phone, because I thought we were going to have a crack. The basis, of course, is that I do believe he said they were broken. But more than a month without ML, this is not normal, I began to doubt. One day at the end of March, when he was in the shower, I looked at his phone, an unnamed phone number, coming and going, and it was ambiguous. When he came out of the shower, I calmly said I looked at your phone. He froze a bit and said calmly,” let's get a divorce."
Always thought he was just playing a game, played natural back, did not think he actually wants to divorce. If he really cared about me and the family, he would never have been so cold to me after I found out about them in November. But I still can not believe that ten years of feelings say break? I have been trying to talk to him all April, and I have written long letters when I can't get together. One day in April, we found a very good Lake restaurant to eat, the weather is very good, the lake and the mountains, he again filed for divorce. And said that if she divorced, her parents could not accept, so he would first buy her a house, to appease her parents. Now I'm really awake, he didn't mean to play.
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