A couple is a college student, after graduation, the woman chose to work, the man continued to graduate, originally a couple of love, because of differences in their academic qualifications and a huge change. Originally gentle and considerate boyfriend to his girlfriend, began to dislike the lower degree than his girlfriend, even if the other party in the two people to pay the cost, to take care of his life, for his patience and considerate wholeheartedly, still can not change his respect, the man admitted to the doctor after the school, the girlfriend's attitude is aggravated,The woman's situation suddenly become embarrassed: a few years of feelings, give up; do not give up, between them has no meaning, and what can be expected in the future?
Emotional things, always a fan of the authorities, bystanders. It is clear that this man is not worthy of love and deserves to be entrusted to the life of the people, not really ambition, has eyes on the forehead, can not talk about the truth, let alone love. True love, should not be related to the situation of life, between lovers, should be able to suffer from the common, simple academic gap has been able to pull the distance between each other, Mo said later also to walk on the road of the wind and rain. Such a man, such thinking, involving not only love, is the character of the problem, the authentic "one year ambition, incoherent" little people, such people, how can bring a woman happiness? It is the people who have lost their lives. In the face of such a person, also can not change the response to his awakening, because you are looking forward to with deep feelings to move his stone heart, in the end I fear he will despise you more: “anyway, I am not good to you you are so helpless, why should I be good to you!"Moreover, because he does not have the wisdom of heavy friendship, the more you low posture, the more he will think you no one wants or he is too good, you will not let go of the struggle, this will only make him more arrogant and higher posture.
In fact, I have to say, human nature is relatively cheap, cherish the wisdom possessed by not everyone has, such a wise person is not many,so people will live so vexed. We tend to ignore what we have, and painstakingly search for something hard to get, in the process of CHASING Chase entangled. Couples, couples, after the initial period of love into the run-in period, your attitude to love directly determines whether you are in the relationship in the active status or passive status. Often, open people will not hide their feelings, easy dedication to each other good, and in the process of running in the effort to endure, so that in the end, the other accustomed to their own tolerance and Favor, will put themselves into humble status. If during this period, the two sides lack the wisdom of management and discovery, and in the end is the one party to get carried away incoherently, one party to the satisfaction of the loss of self. So, love someone do not love, love to seven points is affordable, the remaining three points, to stay to love yourself, love someone is not wrong, but if in this process you forget your needs and the yearning for love, become committed to perfection to fulfill a love, this love has long gone bad, a self-esteem who do not know how the world knows how to truly cherish not many people, so people are easy to be spoiled, to love too much care and accommodation, often in the end without loss of love.
In the face of love, everyone is equal, no one is worthy of who is not worthy of who, every good heart is equal. To love a person finally get no return, not you do not deserve, you are not enough. It is a self-confident and calm gesture. it is also a kind of personality charm. If a man has become accustomed to "wrestling", have you not like a woman, it is better to punch him in the eyes, " I have had enough, see you very disheartening, I climb open."Once a woman thinks that a man will lose a life, her own attitude has doomed her in love is a loser, women, you have to remember: we long for love, because we believe in love, need love, we want to love the role, rather than acting as a cheap nanny.