My name is Lin Fang. Let's talk about myself: my dad is laid off, my mother is a teacher, my upbringing is very common, my father is not good for my mother, I'm actually quite afraid of the family this word. After I graduated I went to Fuzhou to find a job, in 1999 I just work when the salary is only 200 yuan, while I work in kindergarten, while reading undergraduate college music correspondence, last August took a place in school.
05 years ago I did not dare to fall in love, I feel unsteady work, no man can see me. In 2005 I had a teacher, began to think about marriage and men. In September 2006, she was introduced to her husband. Before he and his family, I don't know much, and he fell in love and even later married him, nor the money for his family, just bet he loves me. I think I have nothing to show off, I do not want to climb high branches, as long as an ordinary man, the other side has a stable job, good appearance does not affect the next generation, it can be. The first one was in the karaoke room, I had a toast, he helped me drink, this move makes me feel good about him, I think he will take care of women, heroism.
The person said that he was an only child, working in the insurance company, his father is a bureau chief. When I first fell in love, I was helping my uncle run the wood floor business, he volunteered to go with me. I am tempted by the man's willingness to share with women. I was sick and he had the patience to accompany me to the hospital. The only downside was that he was stingy and rarely bought gifts for me unless I mentioned them. Dinner with me is to go to the ordinary shop, but I still feel happy together.
About three months into the relationship, he said We weren't fit and then disappeared from the world. My mother phoned him and he said I was stubborn and ill-tempered and didn't listen to him. Say we are not sexual. The days that followed were the saddest for me,it was December 2006. I was devastated to kill myself, stupidly bought sleeping pills, phoned him and said I didn't want to live. He ignored. I wanted to see him. he said no. I asked him where he was and I was going to see him. Then took two sleeping pills and went to him. Nothing left.”
I was sad, came back and took sleeping pills, always feel not sleepy. Then my mother came and cried and told me, " don't die for someone who doesn't love you, it's not worth it."He was there, too, and I asked him if he loved me. He said No, it hit me in the face, I was ashamed, the next day to buy a train ticket to the field. When I got to the destination, I found a hotel to sleep for a day and then came back on my own. My mood is very heavy, every day in the space to write words in my heart, I hope he can see. He went to the grandparents ' house with his family for the New Year, and I broke his phone, and he didn't answer, and I was so disappointed that I vowed to forget him. In 2007, 5.1, I went to my father's home in Fuzhou and bought a Tupperware Cup to send him, because 5. 5 is his birthday.5.7 when I came back, the neighbor aunt asked me to help her son and my friend, I chose his share of the restaurant to eat, he happened to come over to toast. We made up.
After the relationship was established, my dad came to see him. Because he was not good to me before, let me feel so bad, my father is afraid that I will suffer after marriage, then put a request, hope he add my name on the property card. His family has three properties, his parents a set, his grandparents a set, his marriage a set, my dad asked to add my name on the marital home, is to be vulnerable in the marriage of the daughter of some security, did not ask him to reply immediately, let him and his family to discuss the next answer. He immediately said yes, and added My name as soon as he got the permit. When he said that his family did not say anything, then my mother repeatedly asked him to promise, he said Aunt you worry, my dad agreed, will be added.
At the time I was very happy, I felt that my husband loved me very much, I was very serious, my dad also assured. But he changed his mind before he got married. He also said that if I offended his parents, he would throw me out.I'm angry that if you treat me badly, I won't give birth to a boy. He said, " it's better not to have children,I can have other women.”This is the first time I've had trouble with him. At that time my heart was muttering, think this person so fast, so fast renege, no integrity, a character will not have a problem? But my mother said that people on this one child, not without marriage to divorce, I want to rest assured.' She and my dad have been through this all their lives and it's been a long time since I got married,' she said.
After the marriage was officially put on the agenda, a lot of questions bubbled up. Because the room did not add my name, I hesitate to and he. One night my mother called to say that her classmate's colleague was the wife of his father's boss. he said that his parents were not satisfied with me, but he loved me and his family reluctantly agreed to marry me. I was very moved and firmly went to the register. When buying new clothes, he said Give me 1500. My mom said that men buy more than 1500 clothes. He said he only needed 1000, and he bought 3000 clothes. I buy clothes is their money to buy in Fuzhou, only 3000. According to local customs, the clothes are generally two sets of a male-female set, that I should have 6000 Ah! I was disappointed that the woman had gone missing the day before.
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