Hello! I was tortured by emotional problems, that is sad and regret, but also do not know how to be good? Please give me direction and give me hope. We are all emotionally frustrated people, met through the network boyfriend, both feel good, it is easy to communicate, appreciate each other, also very frank. I took care of him when he was ill, he was very moved and recovered very quickly. Later we live together, life is very happy, feel all find the warmth of home, once received a breakup boyfriend text message, he is very angry, so we are not happy, become his shadow...Recently, her daughter asked him to stay with him for a few days, I am very irritable, afraid they lost him, often find him trouble, and his unit things are not well, so he is very upset, my mood is not stable, one night when he came back I am angry internet chat, he saw the others“hug", "flowers" picture is furious, I...But he hated it so much and broke up with me and said I had a loose heart that made him insecure...God, he knew that I was sincere to him, that we loved each other, that he did it, that I couldn't accept it, that he used to say. I was so upset, I didn't answer his phone, I texted him, what am I supposed to do? I don't want to give up this truth, I know broke his heart, but I admit mistakes, determination to change later Ah, he ignored me, do not give me the opportunity, I am sad, not willing to...I also want to save, please teach me... I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't sleep, I can't sleep, I can't sleep, I can't sleep, I can't sleep...It's crazy.
Autumn heart reply：
I personally don't care for your feelings. You are all insecure people, he accompanied his daughter you worry about his remarriage, your normal QQ chat, an ex-boyfriend from the news he hated because of wanting to break up, love is still so, after a lifetime of a long road, how to live? And, because you chat QQ he angry, can not answer the phone to ignore, even if you admit mistakes are not dry, such a man, such a gas, such maturity, personal advice you pain, as early as possible the end of this relationship is more practical, this is not a man who can give people happiness.
Autumn heart: Hello! I am 32 years old and LG is seven years older than me. Nine years ago, the husband was the most diligent of all suitors. That's how we determined the relationship. But in the meantime, most of the time we are in different cities, 02 years he finally returned to Guangzhou, also in Guangzhou to buy a house, the house all funded by him, but he wrote My name, on this matter I was very touched, think he loves me, we started living together, at the end of the year, I was pregnant, just to buy a house, the burden. We stayed in the same city for three years after the marriage, but during those three years we kept fighting, but when it came to divorce, he didn't agree. The reason is that he is constantly extramarital affair(I see from his QQ, mail, those lovers are his colleagues or friends, from those words should be the body, the spirit of the derailment, and from the beginning of our love), but he never admitted even black and white words. But in addition to this, he is usually very good to me, there are delicious left to me, most of the housework is he do, he also at least once a day to call me (including information, QQ, etc.), but he never sent a gift to me(when in love sent two flowers, but from the market to buy cheap goods). He is very generous to his friends, his family wants to give all the money, but for my family is very eccentric, the family is also very cheap (I buy things back, he always nagging, in fact, I am the kind of people who are more economical). No matter how I talked with him, every time he told me about the thing is he earned much money, or work, or kids, and never talk about his truth. There is no matter how I asked him to buy a wedding ring, he refused, always very angry that he sold the house to buy me, or that it is not to eat, or that I myself will not buy(in fact, according to our income, this is really a very small sum, he at least ten thousand yuan a month, three or four I going to get a divorce or not? What should I do? In my mind, my marriage is a marriage of chicken ribs.
Autumn heart reply：
Everyone on the marriage tolerance are different, some people even if the husband is very good, but once there is a betrayal, mental or physical infidelity is no way to continue the marriage, but I see you are different, husband's infidelity you have taken the number, but the emphasis on his attitude to you in peacetime, so, from this point you can since your tolerance is so high, do not prevent him to talk to you, these thoughts of your heart persuaded to tell him, and tell him the consequences of this long, some words you don't say or just say, he will easily ignore the seriousness of the problem.
As for him in your marriage to buy a house with your name on this matter, I personally think he is very smart, you have the heart, after many years still become a big selling point of his generous can be used to say things, in fact, the pre-marital property once the real lawsuit, if he finds evidence that you have nothing, With such a man, you have to bring a heart, wronged all may not be suitable.