When I went back to Beijing, I borrowed money everywhere. he said he borrowed it too. We invite friends to dinner in the name of marriage. The impression is more profound, my friends can come, a down to 3, 5000, his friend asked 2 tables up to 1 table, a lot of money, and to 50. These I did not care, after all, in different levels of society. In short, the front and back made 60 thousand dollars, all for him to repay the debt. After the 60,000, I did not see the creditors or the court subpoenas.
We re-rented a one-bedroom, which was officially incorporated. The house I was looking for, to pay when he suddenly said no money, I first anxious, the hand. He went to ask the landlord to delay the payment date until I showed up. When he moved in, he brought only three school bags, and one of his Jeep. I was a journalist and worked as an editor for a steady income. My family was spending money on me, the poorest of the poor, after paying the rent, we have only 15 in the pocket, a month, eggs are not willing to eat.
After his marriage, he stayed at home for three months, until my former boss called to say that a job might suit him. The interview was successful, with a monthly salary of 4000, 5000 after the probation period. It was his first salary in 2000. Here, he is a technical school graduate, resume writing is a junior college. After graduating, he went to a similar n-class agency, then to the Automobile Association as an assistant, and then later he felt that a month 2000 is not enough flowers, he did not do anything. I think he has a stable job, everything can be good, the debt is also paid, you can concentrate on the cure. At this time, he told me that his stomach cancer was misdiagnosed. In fact, individuals know, this is too exaggerated, no cases, have not seen the doctor. At the time, I had to see a doctor who had told me that he had been misdiagnosed. I thought about getting a divorce, but I felt like we were not unloved, and the days turned in the right direction, and I put up with it.
Then there are some life trifles, annoying. For example, when he was not working and had to worry about the rent, he bought a dog behind my back, claiming to be bought for me, so his mother for a long time all the words in the field to pull me. For example, he gave his broken Jeep a lot of security on credit I feel completely unnecessary things. For example, he never does housework, can 5 days without changing underwear, also want to touch me. All this, in addition to quarrels, is a mutual compromise.
I took him to my grandmother's house in Shenyang, my grandmother advised my parents, I was able to go home. My parents certainly don't look at him, but I admire my parents, who have always done well on the surface, neither the tongue nor let me do it. My parents gave him the same gift, $ 20,000.Then I felt that they were protecting me and didn't want the money to be ruined by him. Since he went to work, life hasn't been easy, but tighter. Because he commutes to and from work (I also have a taxi, but I am reimbursed), every weekend to drink with friends to go out, but also often recognize some of the so-called Sister. Later I also know that he was not at home while I was in the daytime, once asked the girl to go home to talk.
A year, I once did not stroll the street, but he set up from the inside to the outside no less than 5 sets of clothes, even if the oil I have to carry to his home. I think his parents are not easy, early years back to the city educated youth, in January the total income of more than 1000 points, also lost so much for the son here, should be filial piety. He went out to eat and drink, I never stop, men should have entertainment, as long as it is not excessive. He was drinking, drinking and going home and standing on the bed. I can't stand the burden of my hard work and the endless worries.
My life can only be described as " stretched, unkempt."I feel very tired, carrying the man and his family, facing their infinite desire to expand. Men want money, faces, sisters, brothers. His family is funnier after we married, both parents officially met only once, about Jinding Xuan, his parents have been eating, my parents have been watching, finally my family checkout. Don't blame me, after experiencing these, I really care who paid the bill.06 national day, his parents came to my house with a snack. There is no such thing as gallantry, no adultery or theft-treating the old man is not supposed to be so mean, but want to take a box of snacks for a room, is not too much?
Here's the thing: because we have been renting, we also feel that we should buy a house. He said, " Let me go to the house, and let me go back to my mother's down payment."I don't like the idea of parents asking for money, especially if their family doesn't have it. And I asked his mother on the side, he didn't intend to give his son half a dime. So, once he had dinner with his family, and he said without shame to buy a house, I was very unhappy. I say, as long as the money, my family can get the house, my mother is in the real estate company. Don't want this sentence is his home on the N, after the door to find my parents.
My mum went out for tea and his dad started talking to my dad. My dad retweeted the message: they have no money, no ability to buy a house, so they want to ask me to find a relationship to buy affordable housing. It has to be a location because it's a good location. And two houses, because they want to live with us. The house is written in our name, we are supplied. The down payment, they went to borrow, we also together. Summing up: they want to house, to specify the location to specify the size of the room, and then from the cottage to move to live with us, the house I offer.
My father played an afternoon tai chi, but his parents were sent away. I have no reason to judge their claims, but I know that I will not do them anymore. That year, he lost his job again. At that time, he said it was the company hacked him, the effect is that he was excluded from what was deceived, he also found a small rogue to threaten the company's boss's wife. It was the end of my relationship, and the two of them didn't harass each other. After the divorce was known because he was found to eat kickbacks. I gave him a second job, is the local foreign enterprise, is the acquisition of the company, the industry position is higher than the original company, the salary of 3000 January.Because he had no clients, no experience, and no qualifications.
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