I was 82 years old, born and bred in Beijing big girl, graduated from college, went to the capital media circle for 4 years, and then to the female public relations industry. Divorced once, married 2 times, so there was an ex-husband. The first marriage is 05 years, the other is born in 79 years, no job, Beijing ruffian, we know 5 days on the flash wedding. After the marriage found two years ago met, so I think this is a godsend fate, did a hundred-fold big bun. The money to contribute to building a better life for each other, and finally unfortunately abandoned. But I think more self-improvement, waving ya take away all the property. The marriage lasted for 14 months, a period of bitter and difficult, indescribable. Yesterday received a call from his ex-husband, he expressed remorse, I mean a bit, hung up the phone, very cool. And therefore think of this person.
In December 2005, she met her ex-husband in an interview. He seems like a very good-looking guy, and he's been talking about himself as a sports car enthusiast, an off-road car enthusiast. I was more depressed at the time, and a man I adored for many years severed contact, is spirit empty window. The day after the interview, the ex-husband asked me to go out for dinner and went. He also broke down in tears. He occasionally said, " Actually we are more appropriate, marriage.”I joked that whoever doesn't Go is the grandson. The next day no one went. Later things are more common, open the room, go to bed. I remember it particularly well, he told me, you lend me $ 500 to open the room, I return you. I remember the clear reason is that, first of all, I am a one-night stand will AA room for a woman, I don't think it is a woman how much loss, as long as the safety and pleasant, who accounted for who is not cheap. Second, from the beginning of the sentence, he did not stop from my pocket money.
The third day we meet again. To be honest, he was in bed, he knew how to serve women, so I wasn't too inclined to see him. Many 80 women may have this feeling, after 23, 4 years old, feel that they are not Young, began to desire marriage and stable feelings, I also faced with such a problem in the physical and mental emptiness, so once again talking about marriage this topic, we both think that we really have to get married. At that time, I rented a single room in a friend's house, although I was a Beijinger, but always relatively independent, after graduating from university moved out from home. On December 23, he asked me to his house, the old Beijing cottage, there was no light in the room. His parents weren't there. He said, My family on this condition, you wronged, back to the end of the card, let's rent a house.
Then we went to the East City Civil Affairs Bureau to obtain a permit, he wore a red jacket, I was wearing a black jacket. The strange thing is, I also paid for the license plus photographic money. Before the certificate, he offered to borrow 5000 with me, said before doing Tourism lost home 100000, he was unemployed, want to start a travel agency or agent in Beijing. Marriage also requires money. I gave him all the cash I had and all the money I could get from my credit card. After the card we are busy to go. I called home that afternoon and told my mom I was married. my mom's first reaction was to hang up the phone.
The next day, I went to see his parents, his mother is a typical Philistine, to face, a lifetime of good, but the wrong people. His father is very honest, selfless kind of Man, I wonder how he did not inherit the good quality. Before me, he and his girlfriend had rented a bungalow in their home, lived together for six months, and then his mother looked at the girl and kicked her out. He said he was sick at the time and deliberately drove the woman away to avoid dragging her down. The first time I saw the parents, his family did not agree with me,after all, I was young, have a legitimate job. The feeling in his family is that this is not the case. And my family, because of my sudden flash wedding, the family and I severed contact, my family are a strong personality, this kind of thing is absolutely inexcusable.
Later, we planned a honeymoon trip, or he planned to take me out. The reason is very simple, he used to do some tourism resources in Yunnan, but because he had a thing(now judge is he did not clean), has been no face to go back, this time there is an excuse to have a daughter-in-law, want to go back to see if there is a chance to make money. Of course, I paid for the ticket. He claims to have borrowed it from me.
The honeymoon, the first farce of our marriage. The next day, he suddenly told me that he thought we were inappropriate and wanted to go back to Beijing to get a divorce. I thought there must have been something wrong with him, pushing him repeatedly, and even breaking his wrist in a glass. He said he had received a $ 60,000 payment for the breach, which resulted in the failure of others to comply, and that a court summons had now arrived at his home. The second is that he has stomach cancer. Speaking of which, he had blood in his mouth and was in agony curled up in bed moaning. How can I not trust a man when his acting skills have reached such a level? I immediately stated that money can be settled, and I can not give up on him at such a time. I am really stupid Dauntless + maternal outbreak.
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